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So basically my boyfriend and I had been broken up, and he hung out with a female friend he knew from high school (he's 26) a few times and when we got back together I saw messages from her from when he was single asking him if he wants to do things like have a "slumber party," to which he gave some weird excuse and then to asking if he wanted to have a "pajama party" to which he replied yes. Other than that she was the only person to flirt, calling him cute and fishing for compliments.
But not once had he ever really flirted back. He claimed he denied her flirting.

i mention that they can still hang out but I'd like to meet her first. So he gives me permission to ask her and when I do she texts my boyfriend calling me crazy. He tells her he knew about me hitting her up and says that wasn't cool.. I tell him I definitely don't want them hanging out alone now.

so then not long after that she calls him and asks him to hang out. He's on the phone with her and I can hear her, she sounds flirty without having to say much. He says they can grab lunch and they hang up. I tell him I don't want that to happen but that he could do what he wanted and he sees how I felt and says he's not. That was the last time she contacted him.. I wonder if
they slept together, do u think so?

Started talking to this guy we’re getting on great he asked me out on a date this week. I made it pretty clear to him I have no time for womanizers or f@ckboys as I've dealt with a lot with my ex. We got into the conversation cause he kept asking about my ex. He keeps fishing for information if he is the only man I’m talking too and I said yes because I only talk to one person at a time. I personally don’t believe in that nonsense if you’re not in a relationship that you’re allowed to talk to loads at once. But it’s not fair if he wants to be the only one I talk to but he’s off chatting up everyone.

Anyway the the past few days I’ve noticed he keeps following blonde girls all quite similar which for me is a bit crap since I it makes me think I’m not his type. And then tonight he was out started following this girl that I actually get my lashes from who was at the same bar as him so he was obviously chatting her up but doesn’t know that I’m friends with her.

The reason I’m so annoyed is that he is making it out that all men are trash and he is like this gentleman but my gut the last few days I’d telling me other wise. I would honestly rather stay alone than be made a idiot out of again. And I know I’m on the insecure side but that’s because I was so badly treated it’s not easy to get over.

I just dont waste my time so if you saw this, what would you do?