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I was told that it doesn't matter how pretty or handsome you are if you're fat you're undateable and undesirable. Growing up I started to feel this was true. All my life I always heard from men and women that I was pretty but I was fat. So I had a lifestyle change and lost 52 pounds in 1 year and 3 months.

Recently I ran into a guy from highschool that I had not seen in a year on transit and he complimented me on my weightloss I said thanks and we chatted a bit, before he left he gave me a hug and asked to hang out sometime which is something he had never done before and i've known him since elementary school. My personality was the same, it was me inside but my outer shell changed so suddenly i was worth his time.

Also a few weeks ago I was at the bus stop and this stranger started talking to me then he asked me for my number which is something that never happened to me before.

I have a boyfriend now, this is the happy part of this story. We started dating before I lost my weight and he accepted me and loved me for who I was. He never told me to lose weight or judged me. But I still felt scared that he would leave me because of my weight. When I think back to my childhood and my teen years I always feel sad because of all the terrible memories related to my weight and getting constantly bullied for it.

So would you rather date a pretty girl who is chubby or an average girl who is skinny?

Would you rather date a handsome guy who is chubby or an average guy who is skinny?

I started watching a YouTuber called MrTechnicalDifficult a while ago. He used to pose as a 12-16 year old girl (She’s really in her 20’s) to lure child predators into a Skype call and reveal himself that he’s a 28 year old man and telling these guys that he has them on camera. That series when on for a while until he started getting hate for doing it because people thought he was mean for tricking guys into this trap.

Then there’s LuxuryPranks. They have a young looking girl-friend as a decoy act like she’s about 13-16. They rent a house and invite the predator over. They watch the interaction between the predator and the “underage girl” and them intervene when things go downhill. They confront the predator just like they do on that NBC show with Chris Hansen. Then they report that predator to the police. They also investigate catfish. Girls and guy come to them saying the person they met online seems fishy. They provide them with pictures and a phone number and meet up with the catfisher who is 99% of the time a whole different person than the person their client was talking to.

I’m all for this. It adds awareness to the amount of creepy people out there and we all need to be careful who we are talking to online.