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I can tell from a guy's POV that we guys think you girls care more about height than (mostly) anything else when it comes to romance. We think (if this is correct or not, is something I want to find out here) that a guy that is either smaller than you or below 5'5'' doesn't have any chance with you - no matter how good looking, talented, well behaved, or having other super personality traits. Heck we even think if we are small then we will even lose even if we were filthy rich. Simply, we are thinking we don't have a chance with you if we lack in the height department.

When asking/creating a pool about it, girls would usually vote against height and for personality. And we - or at least I do - find it very confusing. Did I miss something when you girls go for taller guys but when asked you say it is not important? So, how important is height for girls, now really?

I have a condition that causes me to lose hair diffusely at 19, meaning no bald spots but very thin all over the scalp, there is no treatment and I opted to shave my head bald, I'm taking Howie Mandell full on skin uptop. No shadow no hair whatsoever, I pull it off alright (surprising as I'm a skinny paler guy) my head shape and face work well it I will say, and I know it was just hair doesn't make or break me personally. But I worry that attractive young women in late teens or early 20's will be much less attracted to me. I didn't have much experience to begin with 19, and never had a serious girlfriend (grew up in a small town with very limited options) and I can be honest with myself and say I need to find my partner physically attractive. I have high standards but I'm not some player in the end I want to be happy with only one girl so I'm not ashamed of the standards, and I understand and respect a girl having the same ideals, so I want to know if having a shaved bald head is seen as attractive or an unattractive trait in young women's eyes, and give personal opinions on what you would do if a young bald guy showed interest in you at a party or on the street etc. Or your opinions on if you think it'll put me at a bad disadvantage compared to 'hairy' guys. Please be honest, I appreciate honesty even if it's not what I want to hear.

I love my girlfriend and think she is the one who I want to spend the rest of my life with. Even I told her how good it could be me and her as husband and wife with children and a home full of love I saw tears in her eyes she loves the idea too.But I have a friend who says its a femmine behavior and sign that I'm not a complete man cause I rather to be with just one girl for the rest of my life than go and date more girls. He says at least I shouldn't be loyal to my wife then and must have a mistress! I don't like the idea of having mistress.
I really love my girlfriend and want to have future with her but being a real man and have masclunie traits is very important to me.

Before i begin, i must apologize in advance to the guys, as I've blocked you from answering...and that's only because i asked a similar question like this a couple days ago, and i hardly got any answers from women, and that's what I was actually looking for. Anyhow, what I'm looking for here are women's perspective on my dateability by the time im like 30ish. These days, I've found it very difficult to do anything outside of studying, because I need to study at least 10 hours a day MINIMUM in order to get through my med school classes, so I literally have no time for dating, as much as I want to. I'm kinda worried though that by the time I'm finished med school (by the time I'm 29 - 30), I'll be really inexperienced. I guess its kind of the price you pay for taking the route I've chosen for myself. The hard thing about trying to be a doctor is that you have to sit by and watch all of your friends start their lives at like 23, some of which are already married with kids..and I partly feel like life is passing me by. I feel like by the time I'm finished, a lot of the good gals might alreayd be taken, and I may be too inexperienced with dating to actually attract them anyways.

So for this question, I'm asking you guys to sort of give me an assessment of my dateability in the future. In the question i asked like a day or two ago, I pointed out a couple unchangeable physical traits about me that have in the past made it harder for me to date...but I'm going to list my positives and negatives, and what I want you to do is not give me an answer like "girls would love you/hate you"....make it personal, about you and what you like/dislike in men. And if you have any general feedback on what I should do about my situation, you can throw that in also. Feel free to look at my profile as there is some additional stuff about me there...and most of you already know what I look like, so you've got a lot to work with. Cheers.

Positives:
Good career
Fun hobbies (making apps, gaming, novel writing)
Open minded and down to earth
Funny

Negatives:
Short (I'm 5'5)
Race (controversial, but its been a recurring problem b4, so i mention it here)
Not athletic (I'm alright at soccer but im no jock)
Skinny (fixable, but no time to tackle it atm)