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There have always been those kind of people out there. But hear about this more and more. It was done to me a few times. The worst case was after I dated a girl for 9 months and we got in a minor argument.

Unless someone physically abuses you, steals from you, lies about something very major, threatens harm/violence or cheats on you there really is no excuse for ghosting. However I’m seeing more and more girls (and some guys) saying it’s okay. No you are just a selfish coward if you ghost.

When I broke up with my last ex 2 years ago I gave her the respect of doing it face to face. I really didn’t want to see her or talk to her. She was very mentally unstable. But I knew the best way for her to heal was to hear the truth.

I endured 2 hours of her going absolutely ballistic. Screaming, crying, throwing things, threatening suicide (she didn’t do it). It absolutely sucked but she actually proved to me that I made the right decision. I also walked away knowing that she can look back on things and have a peace of mind that she got to speak her mind. That will help her heal and move on quicker.

Anyway I’m just seeing more and more people bitch out, cower and ghost. They don’t realize that can really screw people up and then those same people started acting shitty to others. The vicious cycle continues.