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My boyfriend is 26, I am 19. We've been living together for 9 months and I don't believe the level of respect we have for each other is mutual. Lately, I've been catching him ogling (not just staring) at other women on his phone or TV. We were at a party one time and a pretty lady on a commercial popped up. He walked right over to the TV and started ogling right in front of me - our friends and I know him well enough that he wasn't interested in the commercial. He thinks I'm naive. I've confronted him about this issue. I told him he could ogle all he wanted as long as he was more private. He apologized and agreed.

But it still hurts to know that in my eyes, I choose to only see him. I can ogle if I wanted but I personally believe that if I chose to be in a committed relationship with this man, I should set my boundaries and show my respect - even when he's not around. I get that men love to look at pretty women and that looking doesn't always mean they're comparing or cheating. But I personally believe that if this ogling "habit" continues, it betters the chance for the man to be infatuated more easily with other women and lead to cheating.

People often ask why it's a bigger deal for men to stare at women but not vice versa... it's simple. Many men sexualize women. They look at her and imagine her naked, think of all the ways to fuck her. If women are not beautiful, society says they are undesireable, hence why many women are so sensitive about looks.

My boyfriend is also lazy. I do all the housework and cleaning, I feed him a hot meal everyday before he goes to work, I pay for all of our laundry (he has never pitched in), I pay our share of bills and almost always buy groceries. He has not once volunteered to go grocery shopping for us, and it is rare for him to prepare me a meal. He says my personal beliefs and hobbies are stupid. He has many good traits but in my viewpoint, he is extremely imma

So shopping at wall mart I had 20 dollars. But I went over the limit and the price was 20 dollars and 61 cents. I said I couldn't afford it and before I was about to ask the man to take It off he said he'd pay for it. And it's ok. As I was leaving the store I remember my parents telling me not to let people buy stuff for me at wallmart or stores because this happened a few times when I went out. I felt bad and very guilty so I trashed the So shopping at wall mart I had 20 dollars. But I went over the limit and the price was 20 dollars and 61 cents. I said I couldn't afford it and before I was about to ask the man to pull it off a bag of chips. he said it's ok and let me buy it. My parents told me to stop letting people buy things for me while at the store. but I didn't ask and these people for anything. They stepped in to pay for me. I felt guilty so I trashed the receipt. And lied to my mom. Saying it was only 20 dollars. I didn't want her to know that once again I allowed another person to pay for me... I still feel bad about the 61 cents. Or am I wrong?