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My girlfriend and I have dated for almost a year, but last night was the first we spent time alone in bed together.
She's heavily LDS and doesn't want to have sex before marriage. But as I was kissing her, I ended up on top and she wrapped her legs around me, and she started to let out these partial gasps. Then as I kissed her neck, she started to gasp more and more, and move her hands around.
I've only experienced that while I'm having sex with a girl.
I wasn't even touching her sexually, just my hands on her back. Was that her being turned on or something?

All I ever hear from girls is that they get with guys, they have sex, and the guy ditches them in whatever way they do it.

And girls make it seem like ALL guys do this. Or most guys do this.

And here I am, believing that the majority of guys are feeling lucky and happy to find someone to be with, to have sex with, to date and cuddle and all that fun shit. That’s what I want. That’s what most guys I know want.

And yet if I were to go by what women say, both online AND in real life, I would be forced to believe that the overwhelming majority of guys are prowling around, looking for girls to fuck and dump. That’s it. We are all just a bunch of fuck and dumpers.

I personally feel like that is complete utter bullshit. I personally believe that the overwhelming majority of guys are looking for a long term relationship. That most guys are not out there, tricking girls and lying to get them into bed so that they can then ghost them the next day.

So put in your votes. My guess, is most guys will vote “never did that before.” If you vote that, tell me how successful you are with women.

If you are the guy who can wham bam thank you ma’am and ghost girls, tell me if you’re a player or not. If not, why did you ditch the girl after sex?

My guess, is the REAL problem with “men” is that women go for a specific type of guy, and then when those guys repeatedly ghost these girls, they go and complain to the world how horrible men are. But men are just fine. The problem is women’s taste in men.

But maybe I’m wrong. Maybe most of us really are wham bam thank you ma’aming girls left and right.