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So this was over a month ago and things seem to have leveled out. But I’m left wondering about my behavior as being overly helpful and possibly making someone uncomfortable.

The door swings both ways with Me Too moments.

A guy I’m fairly chummy with in a twice a week smalller workout class happened upon me after class as I was leaving the shower room asking if I had seen his car keys.

I was caught off guard messing with my phone. I said I’d let the others know. This is a corporate provided workout and most of the people in it are in my company. I sent a group email about the keys not mentioning who lost them.

I circle back to the gym and ask him to enter his cell into mine and let him know I emailed the group about the keys.

CREEPY ON MY PART!! I hit send on my phone out of habit so it looked like I was hitting on him. He made this kind of shocked move then smiled and ran his hand through his hair whilst finding next words. I realized I was sending the wrong message.

I deleted his number at the end of the day. Seeing as no one in my group would be of help after that.

He was kind of standoffish for a while. I don’t think he was happy I emailed the others about the keys.

I then reflected on all the bits of social media you get access to on a person if you have their number and felt like a real creep.

He avoided me and is now back to friendly as usual.

A friend in our class told me I was being oblivious, he didn’t lose his keys and was just trying to start an exchange but I embarrassed him by letting others know about the keys. Obvy made up.

My stance is I crossed a line if he is in a relationship, we don’t talk above it these things but he has a little one.

I dont wear my engagement ring to class because it hurts and will get damaged.

I just want things to be cool. Something out of nothing?

i just don’t want to make similar mistakes with other people in the future.

I've been dating a man who I love with all of me since high school, and we've had a very strong and happy 5 years together so far. We both have said we already know we are who each other wants to end up with in life and we plan on marriage. There are a few issues, like every relationship has, but nothing we don't ever work out and carry forward. However, this one is pretty big, I think. And he doesn't know about it. I've kept it bottled up to myself in fear that he'll read it the wrong way and there goes our amazing 5 years together and the many future years to come. The issue is, I wonder if I settled too quick. I love him. And I know he is the man I'm going to grow old with. But I can't help but feel like I got serious too fast. I've heard that you should never get serious with anyone during your college years because you meet so many people. And I have. I never want a relationship with those who I've met, but I'm still attracted to them. To the point it doesn't feel right. I shouldn't be feeling so attracted to other men. I get these cravings to just go out and have fun with other men. Not necessarily hook up, but just experience fun times with other men. I want to tell my boyfriend how I feel, but I know he would immediately take it as a break up, I'm done, and never coming back. That's not it at all. I know he's my forever... I just think I found my forever when I wasn't ready to. I feel like I should have let myself venture before I got serious and committed myself 100% to him. Because now, I'm stuck with this immature feeling and I can't understand why I can't just shake it off and ignore my desires and focus on my love for my boyfriend. So what do I do? Should I explain to the man who I've spent the last 5 wonderful years together that I think I settled too young? And him definitely take it the wrong way? What if this goes on and we end up marrying and I'm still feeling these desires to experience? What should I do?