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My man and I were sitting across from each other talking, and this woman (whom I don't really know) in the same room was ready to leave and she walked behind him, rubbed her hand at his waist and pulled his shirt, looked at me as if she's challenging me to see what I would do, and walked away. And he didn't say anything. I WAS MAD. It's like, what the hell? I was trying to suppress my anger for a good 15 mins but I got so pissed, so I had to ask him what she was doing. And he said she's his friend's wife; he works with the guy and has done things with that guy before so knows his wife too. He was like, "They are married. It's nothing, so be nice!" And that just made me even more mad! Like, how was I NOT NICE? I didn't say or do no nothing when she was there! I just said, "uh huh..." because I was so pissed. Then he asked me, "Are you the jealous type?" And that made it even worse. I told him no (I am not the jealous type; I only react when I feel that there's something wrong.. that the woman has other agendas - I have this sixth sense which turns out to be right every single time).
I have met married women who are simply sluts and have affairs, so her being married means nothing to me. I just got so mad with this whole thing I can't calm down after hours. How is that my fault now when it's the other woman who's being rude and not respectful? You don't see married women going around rubbing other men's waist. If you want to say bye, you could have tap on the shoulder or just a goodbye hug right? I mean, would that woman be okay if some other women do that to her husband? Would that be okay if I do that to another man? What made him to tell me to "be nice" when I didn't freaking say a word about that to cause a scene or something? And then I am the jealous type because of that? What the hell? Am I not supposed to be mad?