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After a couple years of marriage talk, she proposed to me 2 months ago and I said "yes".

The idea of the details around the ring popped into my head, but I started to think maybe she didn't want one. Neither of us wear jewelry. So I kind of assumed we would likely end up just wearing wedding bands.

The other day she brought up the ring. She said she wants one to start sending a message without words she is engaged and not available. Great.

She doesn't like diamonds. She thinks they are bland and boring. She likes colorful precious stones. She wants it to be somewhat heavier than the usual engagement ring. She wants a custom style. She said "I will help pay for it as I feel as it is my ring, and we are a team, we should both invest into it." Great.

I told her I wanted to look at some rings together to get an idea. She became frustrated and said "Just go find one. Or have one made. You know the basics of what I like. Just go do it."

I am not sure what to do. She is so damn picky and I know her mind could change regarding involvement tomorrow. Should I wait and see if she wants to get involved? Or just go buy one on my own?