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Ok so think with me , anyone can be replaced, the world is full of men and woman and during our life’s we can have many relationships until you decide to get married. For me the getting married idea is very confusing because you are not choosing that person for being special you are just choosing it because the relationships that you had before didn’t worked or now you are old and worried about being alone or maybe now you have money for it but it doesn’t mean you are marrying someone special , doesn’t mean you will not be happy but

you are just marrying someone it could be anyone !

you will still being sexually attracted to other people after marriage but now you can’t be because you have a “special” person you still admiring other people and thinking about them romantically but now you can’t because you have someone “special”If the person is so “special “ it should not exist the rest of the world ! The other man and woman should be aliens to your eyes ! they basically should stoop existing and no one else would be able to attract you
But
that is not what happens...
tell me your opinion

I often see married couples, who don't love each other but their interests/hobbies/opinions are alike. They don't seem to look happy actually, more like comfortable marriage where persons are accustomed to each other. Meanwhile when I meet couples where both partners have different personalities, they seem to be happy although they argue. For me love marriage is better and I'm curious what other people think about it