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I let my ex boyfriend borrow 20K for his rent, 5K for his medial check up, restaurant bills which I forgot to count many times, shipping tickets that cost 4K, hotels and etc. which I believe would cost more or less 50K in total

my ex boyfriend has asked me to loan before for a motorbike. I don’t want to but he forced me promising he’s gonna pay monthly. but my family knew about it so they stolen the motorbike and sell it for 42K. Now I am keeping the money.

I dropped everything for my boyfriend to stay with him which I believe I spent more a lot. I sacrificed a lot of things but He only cheated me with another woman. Who he boast to me who has more money and can meet his needs. And now, my best friend is gone, my stable work is gone, my health sucks of std, my body becomes thin.

what shall I do should I return the money or not?

Me and my ex where together for 7 years was a perfect relationship but when our son was born our relationship started to crumble , we stopped having sex and we fought a lot. Our baby wasn’t planned and he had planned on going traveling before I found out.

He ended things with me and I was devastated It’s been 10 months. And since the Corona I was kinda hoping he would change his mind and want to get back together.

I found out today through a friend that he started seeing a girl the last few weeks and apparently he is really into her. She broke up with him because he had a little baggage but since then they got back together.’ Apparently this girl is everything I’m not, 4 years older, fully career driven and has no kids. The reason he hasn’t told me about her is he wants me to move on before he breaks the news. I can’t say anything either our friend asked me not too.

I feel like this girl is getting in the way of me putting my family back together. I feel my ex should do what’s best for our son. I kind of feel that I should get in contact with this girl and tell her she is breaking up a family. I am just so hurt.