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It is my first time going to a breast check-up because my boyfriend recommended it. So I don't know how exactly it is supposed to be done. When I went into the doctor's room, he first asked me to take off my blouse and my bra. Meanwhile, he locked the door and switched on the lights at one of hisbk tables. He asked me to sit on the chair at that table. Then from the back door of the room came 2 young men and 1 old man, they also locked that door. Then the doctor told the young men each to hold my each of my arm such that both were perpendicular to my body. And then the old man auto matically came and hugged my bottom (one hand on my butt, and another around my legs) with his head on my private part. The doctor then used his 2 hands to squeeze both of my breasts very hardly twice and took down something. Then he 'slapped' my breasts several times and again wrote down something. Then he pinched my nipple, raising my whole breast. He started using his hand to go around it smoothly and did the same for the other breast. He then put his ear on my breasts. He asked the men to go. After that, he asked me to jump up and down as much as i can. When i stopped, he asked me to put on my bra. And then he literally kissed both of them. Then he put on my blouse for me in such a way that my top part was visible. Not even smiling once, he sent me off. The check-up was cheap, but I felt wrong. I haven't told this to my boyfriend yet. Is this the correct procedure? Or was he playing with me? Am i to change doctors?

guys i like one of my male friends a lot and for a long time now
we only see each other randomly or when there's a group event

BUT every time we see each other, he flirts with me a lot. i have never reciprocated because im scared i misread all the signals and would make a fool of myself. but even my friends have picked up on his flirting and the last time i saw him he complimented me a lot and was initiating conversation with me and trying to get attention when i would talk to our mutual friend (also a guy).
he is coming to my bday in a couple of weeks... pre drinks at the hotel room as a group then clubbing.

what form of flirting is MOST effective? vote and comment

a) at a distance flirting - eye contact and smiling
b) initiating conversations and eye contact
c) light touching here and there..., laughing at his jokes but nothing over the top
d) make eye contact, look him up and down then smile and look away, lingering touches, compliment back if he does, laugh at jokes, initiate conversation, break the touch barrier with lingering touches on the forearm, thigh etc.

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