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I told her how I felt and now I feel like I’ve made a terrible mistake. How can I fix it?

I told a girl I have known for nearly a decade that I have developed feelings for her, and she said she’d get back to me despite the fact she was with someone else. We had been keeping in close contact ever since we both...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

I need boy advice! What should be my next step?

So there's this guy I work with. I've known him since I started working there and always thought he was cute. I just never had the chance to really get to know him because he worked in a different area than me. For...

faithfulbumblebee

Xper 3 Age: 31

Society & Politics

How do I avoid people bothering and talking to me on the bus?

So I rode the bus in my neighborhood before but I hated it because people would constantly talk to me and I didn’t know what to do at the time. I would try to be nice and polite to avoid confrontation. I used to take the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I need some real advice here, please help me?

I loved this guy a lot, I proposed him and he rejected me, although he used to flirt here and there with me and he even said that he might fall in love with me in future, but obviously that didn't happen, he started...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you date a man that’s unattractive but has a beautiful heart and soul?

Ladies, would you date someone that’s a 5/10 but he gets you, he’s intelligent and an absolute sweetheart who also has a secure job? Is it possible to be in a long term relationship with someone who is unattractive?...

Anon12897

Xper 4 Age: 29

Has anyone broken up with their partner due to depression and if so, did you guys get back together?

I've recently gone on a break with my boyfriend due to having depression, and really struggling with it. I'm pregnant with his child, and moving house with my parents this week, so I'm incredibly stressed out, so I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Starting to see red flags need advice?

So I met this guy and we’ve only been talking for a few days he is pretty much everything I’ve been looking for in a guy from what I can tell so far anyways. However he keeps spamming me with messages and then calling...

Jemma_Elmore19

Xper 3 Age: 24

Shall I stay with my boyfriend?

We've been together for about 6 months, but for the past 3 months, my boyfriend has been very snappy.. I've noticed it more recently and it's really starting to upset me. He constantly says im miserable, and sometimes I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Low Self-esteem Due To Work. Advice On How To Help?

I recently started work at a local nightclub. Most things about the job I'm fine with. The late hours, pay, free drinks, and my colleagues are really nice. However, after tonight I got hit with a massive wave of anxiety....

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to know if your relationship abroad is worth it?

I’ve been living abroad for 4 years now. Three years ago I met my now boyfriend. Last year I lost my job but I remained in the country to stay with my boyfriend and I’ve been freelancing for work. The issue is that the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Home Chats

Alfred Adler [Humanistic] Theory: We All Have One Basic Desire and Goal: To Belong and Feel Significant

So I stumbled across a reference to Alfred Adler today. I decided to do some research. I think I like this fellow. He's my kind of guy. He's a humanist. I think I'm a humanist. Not in any sort of formal or organized way...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Guy's Behavior

Help please. What should I do?

I wrote on here a few weeks ago regarding a situation and that same situation has been reoccurring. Yes, I sound like an idiot but after all, life isn’t always black and white and sometimes we all get taken in by things....

HoneyRose82

Xper 2 Age: 44

Family & Friends

Sexual abuse among circle of friends. What's your advice?

STORY #1 I am friends with two people who dated and then broke up. This guy said when they broke up that she's overly sensitive (and I sense that too sometimes). Never gave it any thought because I like hanging out...

seanras

Xper 6 Age: 35

Need Advice!! what shall I do if they both are obssessed with me and I want them to leave me alone?

my ex whom i broke up with nearly 2y ago from that day till now he stalks me on social media always watching me when i’m live-streaming anonymously as it says 2ppl watching so it is him because he acc came through when my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it valid advice to tell someone, you should reconsider your preferences?

I read an article just now about how a group of experts took a guy's tinder profile and made it better. They had him take better pictures, fine. They had him change his bio, fine. But in the end they saw that he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I ask him out on another date?

I went out with a guy last Friday and it went really well in my opinion. Conversation was easy and he showed indication at the time he would be interested in hanging out again. I texted him to say I got home safe and had...

Anonymous

(25-29)

New crush! need advice! please and thank you?

There’s this guy that has started to catch my eye at school. He sits in the same area at lunch for about 30 minutes everyday talking with his friends.. sometimes alone. I try to ignore him but I’m very physically...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I am in a relationship I dont want to be in, what should I do?

I have been with this guy for 2-3 months and I have tried to break it off multiple times but he starts begging to stay together and to give him another try and I end up changing my mind because I don't want to be a bad...

Anonymous

(25-29)