I am in a relationship I dont want to be in, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I have been with this guy for 2-3 months and I have tried to break it off multiple times but he starts begging to stay together and to give him another try and I end up changing my mind because I don't want to be a bad person. But spending time with him is not enjoyable for me at all and he has said a lot of problematic things to me before (such as I don't deserve him, all the guys I dated are unattractive etc).
He is also too much into sexting, something i have made clear i don't like and he acts like its my fault that he is losing interest in doing anything intimate with me. When i bring up that maybe we should break up then he tells me to stop threatening him.
I really need some advice in how to break this off because it is really messing with my mental health.

[Christine8]

Omg you need to leave the relationship! Please trust me on this. I am in the same situation and things only get worse over time.
I did the same thing every time I tried to break up he made me feel bad and I stayed.
You need to put yourself and your happiness first
as it affects your health also. My mental and physical health have suffered so bad because I was not strong enough to leave earlier as he always blamed me and made me feel like a bad person.

This guy does not seem respectful towards you. If he was he would accept that you are saying you want to break up and he would accept that you don’t like sexting.
You need to tell him that it is over and that he needs to respect your decision and then you need to make sure not to answer any of his calls. Do not contact him either. Make sure to spend lots of time with your loved ones family and do things that you enjoy. Put yourself first. Please take care of yourself

[Blackcupcake]

Say no and stand your ground, even if he begs. You can stand by your no without being a bad guy, cause you don’t have to say mean or hurtful things to say no. Just explain what you feel and end it.

[Dnc873]

He sounds like a dick, he is willing to tell you that you don't deserve him then you need to have no problem telling him you're done. Just break it off with him, block him, let him be gone. It will only get worse the longer you let it go. He does not deserve someone to be nice by allowing him to be with you, he is not heartbroken he is manipulating you

[slatyb]

Presumably you aren’t living together. The next time he contacts you just say “Sorry, it’s not working for me. Best wishes. Don’t contact me again.” Then block him everywhere and never ever speak with him again. If you have anything that belongs to him, tell him you will send it.

[Little_Bumblebee]

You're not a bad person for breaking up with someone or rejecting them.

He's an idiot that's trying to manipulate you.
Pull yourself together and break it off. Clean cut and don't let yourself fall prey to his words again.

[FilmGuy93]

You've already made yourself clear. I think this is one of the extremely rare situations where ghosting is actually appropriate.

[exitseven]

Wake up tomorrow and decide that is the day you will break up with him. Do not listen to his begging and try to move on with your life.

[Yaharro]

He doesn't own you anything rejecting someone doesn't make you a bad person

[Tunasub]

Get out of it.