What should I do in this relationship?

[Anonymous]

In a relationship

I am currently in a relationship right now and I am so happy because this person came in to my life unexpectedly. He is so sweet and caring, he even advice me some good things. He love me and showered me with butterflies. He even planning to have a family with me with a lots of kids. Right now, he is deployed and in war, we only communicate through WhatsApp only and when he is going back his work there, he is going to mute me so I can’t disturb or he can’t be disturb of what his doing there. In this Month of June he contact me 5x and this July 1 time. I’m happy for it and I can assured that he is safe. Then yesterday I found out his using Viber, I saw him always online. Does he used Viber for confidential information to his boss? Or does he cheated on me? Actually he told me before that he has Viber but we never use it for our relationship. I badly want to message him on Viber but yet I don’t want him to think of me that I don’t trust him and tailing him. What should I do? Can you give me an advice?

Updates

+1 y

Yes it is a tough situation, last time when he contact me is he injured his hands.

[dophix]

That's a tough situation! Just observe him. You can do the detective skills in a low-key way. Just act normal 😊

[Asker]

Thanks. 🙏🏻

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know but I don’t like my girlfriend to have social media because I don’t trust anybody on this earth too many Temptations

[Anonymous]

You don't trust him, but you are pretending that you do. This won't end well.

[Asker]

Sometimes I do trust him, but sometimes I didn’t. Seems like 50-50 trust issues. Maybe the 50 percent trust is because I really love him, and the other 50 percent is being suspicious about this Viber.

[Guy13]

It sounds like hold tight.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Guy13]

It seems like you are going to have to trust him for who he is or is not. I think you are right.. if he gets idea that you distrust him it could blow up. Tough situation for sure !!!

[Avicenna]

Ask him why he uses it

[Asker]

I would like too, but I don’t want him to think of me that I don’t trust him, because on June when we talk he is very happy that I trusted him. 😭

[In_Trance]

You take it or leave it