What do I do about my relationship?

[ilovedabi]

I'm dating thus guy one and we've both seen each other and FaceTime and called, we are hoping to meet up one day soon. But i have a problem sometimes he will take up to 4 days to reply to me, and he's compared me to a dog.. what do I do?

[bowenw]

If he's treating you that way at this early stage of the relationship and you're having doubts already, it's probably not going to work as a long-term relationship.

[ilovedabi]

We have been dating for about a year

[bowenw]

Has he explained why it can take him up to 4 days to reply? Is he being serious when he calls you a dog?

[ilovedabi]

He said I was as loyal as a dog, and he said he's just busy kr sleeping

[bowenw]

Being called as loyal as a dog is a good thing. The delay in replying to your messages is a little concerning. I find if someone is interested in you they will make time for you regardless of how busy they are, unless they work in a job where they physically can't, like a solider in battle.

[ilovedabi]

Yes but the way he said it he was a bit mean but I still don't know what to do because one time he got a girls number just because his friend said ge could not pull girls

[bowenw]

Oh, okay. If he said it in a mean way that is not good. He may not feel as strongly for you as you'd like and not ready for a serious relationship.

[SlothySlob]

Compared you to the Man's best friend? Compared you to a creature that is most loyal to a Man? How is that bad?