What do I do with this relationship?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating online for about a year and I love him and he loves me but there is one problem sometimes he won't respond for a few days sometimes even a week or more. Am I doing something wrong? Is he losing interest? What do I do?

[Catarine]

People that care about you will always take time of their day to talk to you. People who don't care for you will talk to you when they have nothing else to do or when it's really necessary. Sorry to say this but perhaps he's not really interested in you. Maybe you talk about to him about this but I don't think he wants a relationship and if not you can find better

[Nxtawm]

He’s most likely losing interest, it doesn’t matter how busy he says he is, a text takes a few seconds. You can go a day without texting but a few days? No, not to mention a week is crazy for someone you supposedly love. I don’t know if there’s any other girl but it just definitely means he’s not that interested in you.

[boggboss]

U speak to him about this hag don't know why he does this

[Anemone978]

I doubt he actually loves you... He might care about you in a way, but in my experience if he goes that long or ignores your messages he is sleeping with other girls...

[Asker]

He says he's sleeping or at work. Can I believe him?

[Anemone978]

I don't know I would say go with your gut feeling...
The dude I was talking to said the same thing "I was tired after work" "I'm busy asf" turns out he met a skank at a club and had been sleeping with her for a month... but telling me he loves me and can't wait until I go meet him... he tried to tell me she didn't mean anything.. but like wtf?

All I can say is look into his online presence.. it usually gives you clues..

[Asker]

I don't have a bad feeling but it's hard to know, I did make a account and see if he would try and cheat but he said he had a girlfriend so that eased up my feelings but I still don't know if he would do it irl

[Anemone978]

I'm not sure but if you feel you can trust him then maybe he is telling the truth..
You will usually feel it when something is up

[Stevefiveo]

Hmm, you should figure out how to live together.

[Asker]

We live far away from each other and nethier one of us has the money to move yet

[Stevefiveo]

Hmm,. Do you have plans to change that?

[Asker]

Yes I do I've told him I'm gonna save up the money and try moving closer to him or in the same state as him but it will take a bit as the job I have is not the best paying but I love it

[Stevefiveo]

Good plan. I think the communication will definitely get better when you live together. Have you two looked at apartments together.

[LiamJHayden]

Have you met in person?

[Asker]

Not yet we live far away from each other and we want to soon

[Catarine]

Are you sure he's a real man? Sounds like possible catfishing scenario

[Asker]

He is we have called and ft