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Do I keep chasing?

here's the basics in a nutshell. I dates a guy for a few weeks and he became to full on. I asked him for some space and he became offended in the end I ghosted him for no rhyme or reason I regretted it and initiated...
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How do I stop comparing every guy to my ex?

My ex and I broke up after 4 years a little over a year ago. It was hard for me because he broke up with me but I knew it was for the better so I took my time in getting over him. I loved him a lot like so much more than...
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How do I attract guys that want a long term girlfriend and treat me with respect?

Recently I have gone through a break up. I have issues dating anyone 16-17 so normally I date 18-21. I'm a few months away from turning 17. I have gone on a few dates but everytime it just seems to be a miss because there...
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Feeling so nervous and self conscious about going to the company holiday party alone?

I'm single, but it feels like everyone in my company is either married or dating someone. I'm 27 and it often feels like I'm getting to the age where it's "expected" that I'd be settling down or stating to get serious...
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What is the best site for finding a hookup?

I am recently divorced and want to have some fun before settling down again. What are the best genuine online dating sites or best place to find a hook up?
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My brothers think I can do better, and that scares me. What do I do?

I know this will sound bad to begin with, but bear with me please. I dated this guy for eight months last year, and he was pretty much a drunk asshole most of the time. He made some sexual comments about me to my youngest...
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My Brothers Hate Him For Who He Was Before. Why Do I Care? What Do I Do?

I dated this guy for eight months last year, and he was pretty much a drunk asshole most of the time. He made some sexual comments about me to my youngest brother and that kind of thing, and the kid didn’t get a great...
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11 Facts About The Iconic Sex Goddess, Marilyn Monroe

1. As a child, Norma Jean Baker, later as Marilyn Monroe, lived in an orphanage and had 11 sets of foster parents, after her mother Gladys was institutionalized. 2. She almost chose the screen name of Jean Adair before...
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Would you rather be single or date a player?

I hear a lot about people settling or saying "well if s/he is pissing you off just date someone on the side" and so I want to know; would you rather be cheated on all the time or be single instead?
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I hear a lot about people settling or saying "well if s/he is pissing you off just date someone on the side" and so I want to know; would you rather be cheated on all the time or be single instead?
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Player, I don't care
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30 in two months and no success with finding a girlfriend - what can I do?

In two months I'm gonna be a 30-years old guy, who had no success in dating. Only once I had a girlfriend, but that was a pure coincidence many years ago - we meet on WW2 history forum and were just a friends for more...
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Guys, How To Handle Post Breakup Relationship with A Guy I Still Really Like?

GUYS, I need your advice on this desperately... For about four months I was dating a guy who I really liked and I know the feeling was mutual. We are both 20. He's dated lots of girls but has never had a serious...
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Why is There Such a Fear of Settling Down Too Young?

So I am writing this not to make anyone feel bad but kind of out of curiosity. Why is it that young people are so fearful of marriage and staying away from the concept? I am 19 years old and I have been on many dating...
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I legitimately worry I'll die alone?

I'm a 21 year old guy. It seems all my friends are always talking to someone new, telling me their hookup stories, the guys or girls they're talking to and I can never relate. Maybe I artificially created unrealistic...
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Guys, how would you feel if a girl you were obsessing about but rejected because "you weren't ready for a relationship", found a new guy?

You fell for her hard and saw yourself spending the rest of your life with her, but wasn't ready for a relationship and wanted to play a little field before settling down with her. So you kept her around waiting, making...
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Anyone else laugh when people try to cope and pretend like "lookz aren't important"?

especially when when old women say "looks aren't important", it's nothing more than virtue signaling. It isn't authentic. Women are socialized by society to pretend looks aren't important, and men are socialized to...
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The Gift Of Confidence

Hey g@ggers! I haven't been online in months, and this post will probably explain why. I figured that since some of you seem to enjoy my posts, and a few of you are even invested in my life, I should share this amazing...
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Girls, Girls I need your advice on this, am I wrong to think that she (my SO) is the one ruining our relationship and not me?

Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 years. Approx a year of that was long-distance. Since at the first year and a half we had long brakes from each other due to work/studies in different parts of the...
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Would you be satisfied being with a girl that you only consider an 8/10 in looks or would you be looking for an eventual upgrade?

Speaking about long term. If everything else was good - personality, sex, common interests, etc. Would you feel like you're settling if you only see her as an 8/10?
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How important is looks to you with finding someone overall attractive/date-able?

Just wondering. There is a notion guys care more about looks. And that women for the most part don't get instantly attracted to men upon first glance but more so upon their character and wit/intelligence/general...
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Just wondering. There is a notion guys care more about looks. And that women for the most part don't get instantly attracted to men upon first glance but more so upon their character Show More
9-10 Crucial he/she needs to be someone that really stands out when i see them.
8 Very important... I rarely am interested in people who I don't find fit/hot
7 Important... I can be leniant on their apperance if they have other qualities... but not much.
6 Fairly important but other qualities make a difference
4-5 looks make a small difference but there are more important things that get my attention
0-3 Don't care, I seek other qualities
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