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I was reading a novel where this exact scenario took place. Normal women have their menstrual cycle once every month, sometimes sooner or later. Well a recently developed techology can change all that. Using a simple and cheap shot, you now only get one cycle per year. It will be no better or worse than your current cycles, but you know a couple weeks of advance when you'll start ovulating by feelings in your body. However, this change is permanent until menopause. You can still have kids, but now there's maybe a two to three week window every year. If you do have kids, the shot will not effect them, and you can still freeze your eggs if you want, but this is costly and unnatural. Anyways, would you take the shot fully knowing you only have once chance per year to become a mom the rest of your life? Would the lack of periods and not having to use birth control methods make it worth it? Some women with normal cycles already are haing trouble trying to have kids in the first place, what if you started having those same complications but now with the shot making things even harder?

Been in a relationship 3 years, all of a sudden out of the blue, she wanted me gone, found out through various methods that she was interested in another guy, told someone that she wanted to hook up with him and everything but was scared of falling for him more, and lied to that friend of hers saying he was interested and, if she got pregnant he'd love them both.

She made me look like a real monster to all her friends and family, and after i caught her she fessed up, admitting she "didn't know" why she was doing what she did, and knows she crushed me.

she's been on and off on anxiety pills, and terrible birth control that has messed with her mental psyche, and admits that she thinks she just went mental over this some how.
I called her out on her bullshit, and now we're at a standstill.

She wants a second chance; should I give it to her; why?

Here's a little additional info so to have a fully unbiased opinion:

1. We started dating she was 17, I was 19, she's been with me since, and hasn't lived a regular young teenage girl/adult life because she moved in and I'm not the drinking / party kinda guy.
2. she's never cheated before.
3. She does have a tendency of loosing her marbles.
4. she's always been with me, and doesn't really go out much so I know she couldn't have done anything until very recently.
5. She works with this guy.
6. She lied to her friends and family saying really bad stuff about me to ease the pain of what she was doing on herself, and made me look like the bad guy to save face.
6. Even after all this, I am Angry, upset, betrayed and feel reduced to nothing; HOWEVER, I do still love her with all my heart and do want this to work.

I've made mistakes in the past, never quite like this, but I believe everyone f***s up once in their life. she's agreed to come clean to everyone about all the lies.

2nd chance?