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Fresh friendship, a few months in, we bonded over being counselors to youth at a camp. I had no intentions of even remotely considering someone so young for me, but somehow I find myself seriously attracted to him and despite the age difference, we surprisingly have so much in common. He's even discussed how, despite his age, he's ready to find the one, marry and have kids, that he's tired of games with those his age. (not that I've even remotely brought that subject up to him, as we are not currently involved romantically).

I think there are times when it's apparent and undeniable when you have that chemistry with someone and you both can feel it and you know, but it's left unsaid. He recently just found out that my ex was 5 years younger than me and he honestly seemed shocked by it and looked over at my close friend and said, "well she sure likes the young one's doesn't she?" to which she teasingly replied while looking at him, "she sure does." He is 20, about to be 21 and I am 29 soon to be 30, like I said, a significant age difference. I know this is totally unorthodox. We made friends with one another before we knew the age difference.

The chemistry, the bonding, the flirting, it's all there, except he is not taking steps to advance, and neither am I, since I am the woman and I'm older, I do not want to come across as weird or overstep. Is it possible that while there may be attraction and all the right connections there, that he just will not consider it because of our age difference? Guys, what's your opinion? If you bonded so amazing with someone older than you, even if you had feelings, would you refuse to take it any further because of the age difference?

I have a huge crush on a man who I have a flirty relationship with. The flirting is often sexual and he acted jealous when he found out I was talking to his male colleague.
I don’t see him much anymore because I have a new job. He asked me if I like my new job and then instead of asking me what I do etc., he asked me if “there are any nice looking guys” and if I’m “getting laid while being paid”
I saw him today but he was driving towards me and I had to run out of his way (he didn’t wait for me to cross road before he left the junction). I saw him face to face an hour or so later and he said “how come you didn’t wave to me? Does your arm hurt when you lift it?” And then I said that my arm does hurt because I’ve been working hard in the gym and he said “Nia (my personal trainer and one of his ex members of staff) looks good doesn’t she?” And he flexed his arm.

So there's this guy Thomas whom I've known for a while who's made it very clear that he wants to sleep with me. He's flirted with me and he's sent pics. Most of the time it's all he thinks about when talking to me. We haven't seen each other in a while
but the last time we did last year I asked him where we stand and he referred to his nonexistent feelings for me using a soda analogy but this year he's surprisingly been a lot nicer to me, well even back then when he took me to a park he held my hand twice when helping me walk over a hill and again in the car that very same day so I'm getting mixed signals here.. I'll still never forget the minute he first saw me he smiled big, not even my ex boyfriend looked that excited to meet me which is funny considering the fact that I never officially dated this guy.

He's said before that he doesn't get jealous yet he asked me who I was talking to when I sent him a screenshot of a conversation and said he wanted to be my only "fuck buddy"

He always tells me he's complicated but he never tells me what he actually means..

And now he's not talking to me at all

I got a text from his Kik account saying he sold his phone but I'm not buying it I think it's bs