Men, would you ghost a girl for saying this?

[Anonymous]

I told the guy I’m friends with benefits because I was angry
context : he’s in love with his first love and she left him for his best friend in 2016 but he’s still in love with her
“enjoy fucking your hands whilst joe fucks your bitch for what, the 100th time? She even said she prefers (inserts his current best friends who she used to flirt with name) over you hahaha”

“Hmm remember your ex and your ex best friend joe? they have been living together since 2018. Think of all the sex they’re having. All the times he was inside her and you where nothing but a distant memory”

Okay, he GHOSTED me and will not respond…. I apologise twice. He has been my friend for two years I’m shocked this was the final straw

[spartan55]

You're shocked? Are you fucking kidding me? I am noticing more and more women that seem to have zero self awareness, and think they can hit the reset button whenever they want after acting like a complete bitch. Also worth noting, you were a friend with benefits acting like that? That would make flaming the bridge to you even easier. Of course you don't mention why you said those things to him. I've learned that when women leave out a key component of situation, USUALLY it's because they were in the wrong. (not always)
All that because he wouldn't be your boyfriend (which you agreed to in the first place). Amazing.

[MCheetah]

"I've learned that when women leave out a key component of situation, USUALLY it's because they were in the wrong."

This is the key component here, and I'd say it occurs 90-95% of the time in any of these stories.

[Chelsdope0]

@MCheetah true lmao

[Chelsdope0]

Umm can you respond to mine pls

[MCheetah]

Yeah, that was kind of an asshole move there. I wouldn't ghost someone for saying that, but I would leave a final "f*ck you" note. I can't blame him for wanting to ghost you. You need to get on your hands and knees and beg him for forgiveness, but that's not something most women are willing to do.

[Anonymous]

I also don't like guys who refuse to move on but that was pretty cruel to say, you're not a good friend and he was right to leave.

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't see this question was for men but whatever

[Warmshadow]

You cut his ego to the quick. What you said is basically unforgivable. If he changes his mind, it will be on his terms.

[mark000h]

The literal worst thing you could tell a guy and you managed to. No guy wants to think his crush has had another guy inside of her, on top of her. You're sick for doing that to some poor kid who made the mistake of trying to be your boyfriend. Hope karma strikes.

[Chelsdope0]

Ooof lmao.

I say shit like this when I’m really hurt and mad.

I told a guy that I was glad that he’s a firefighter because it raises the likelihood of something happening to him.

but yeah.. you hurt his feelings.

[Screamsgutter]

Women complain over the littlest things men say to them and amazingly women will say things ten times worse and have absolutely no self-awareness or see the double standard in it.

Astonishing.

[jaybee281]

Someone asked a few days ago if there was any reason to hit a woman - bill burr named a few - this one definitely makes the cut - you should be glad he only ghosted you

[jasco]

Oh you a bitch for saying all of that and yea I would ghost you cause you was just being a bitch for that regardless of your intent

[Lockey_]

Well said, i was just thinking about how i could tell her this in a sensitive way but you just did it directly which makes things clear.

[FilmGuy93]

How are you shocked? You got mad disrespectful… I would've 86'd your ass along time ago.

[msc545]

I'd ghost you too if you said that to me. Words have consequences.

[nawtee_me]

you sound like a Bitch to me, I would have ghosted you too.

[PeterSmith1983]

Lol its bit strange under the belt remark but I am not easily upset so probably would not ghost you

[Anonymous]

Stopped reading at "friends with benefits".

[WtfLife1]

I don't know, sounds like you're jealous. I probly wouldn't ghost you.

[Anonymous]

you're a piece of shit with friends like you who needs enemies

[emperor90]

I would ghost them cause she is weird

[In_Trance]

I'd block you