Guys, why would you ghost a girl after confessing your feelings to her?

[Anonymous]

And she responded with the same energy. What am i missing here? Did he lose interest? Or sometimes it just doesn't work out?

[strateguy632]

Because he was busy for a few hours and was not really ghosing

[Asker]

he's come online and ignored me for a week

[spartan55]

More contexr

[Asker]

He confessed his feelings for me and it was done very suddenly. I wasn't ready to understand it. I brushed it off and gave him a general response. I later processed it and started developing feelings for him and confessed my feelings back to him. He reassured me telling me he likes me and then stopped talking to me for around a week

[spartan55]

And now what?

[Asker]

I was wondering if any guys here can tell why they would do that

[spartan55]

Because you brushed him off.

[Asker]

I brushed him off for a day. 2 days later i confessed my feelings back ! He's hardly been responding since. How do you want a woman to make up for that?

[spartan55]

You can't really.

[Asker]

Eh, I'll try my luck. I don't think its my fault. Girls can get nervous too

[spartan55]

Yeah, but you can be nervous without shooting him down

[Asker]

I did respond with the same energy later. Anyways thank you for your response. It has helped me understand men a little more

[spartan55]

I mean, it sounds like he pulled the plug VERY quickly, so I doubt he has strong feelings.

[Asker]

Yes, i doubt it was strong thats why i didn't respond with the same energy right away

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't.

[Asker]

Wish more men were like you