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So my girlfriend and I just broke up earlier this week. I admit I had a drinking problem that caused some rifts in our relationship. I've always had a problem with having one too many drinks, and I become someone different when I drink. She also has an older sister who went to rehab for alcoholism, so it's a personal issue with her that hits close to home. She found out I drank a beer at the Superbowl when I promised I wouldn't. It turned into a whole argument of us blaming the other for all our fights. Like she cheated on me before Christmas with her best friend (she did) or how my drinking has depressed her. Anyways, we called it quits, but she came over the other night to talk and it sounded like we wanted it to work. We said I loved you, kissed, and she even stayed the night (no sex just slept together). When we are in person it's like we are dating again, but apart she acts distant. She gets mad if I call her baby. She doesn't message as much. She states she doesn't want a relationship right now, and I really need to prove myself if I want her back. I also discovered she is talking to her best friend again she cheated on me with. I had her block him after the cheating charade, but she added him back the night we broke up. Should I keep trying to win my ex back. Or should I move on?

So my girlfriend (19) and I (24) are dating on our technically 3rd time around since June of last year. Before we even started dating, she was purposely trying to push me away saying she was damaged all that stuff someone might say: I kept pushing so we started going out. Off the bat, she had some exes still in her life: a marine who still flirts with her, a high school fling who constantly asks her to hang out, and a long distance ex who she considers her best friend. I told her it was wrong to keep exes in your life, but she assured me they were friends and friends only. The marine she ended up going out to dinner with (with his family I might add) and then went to his house for a bonfire. She ignored my calls and messages the entire time. I almost broke up with her then, but gave her another chance. The high school fling she kept asking if she could hang out with him, despite him always asking for her "back". The ex of long distance caused our first breakup. I found sexts between them on her phone. She blamed me for this saying my drinking problem led her to do that. We now have a deal where if I don't drink, she keeps him blocked. She stated if I drink again, she can talk to him again: is that even right? She states they're just friends and it won't happen AGAIN. It shouldn't have happened in the first place. Another breakup happened because I asked her to move out of my apartment a while back because of how lazy and messy she was: dishes with food left on the floor, clothes all over. Also she dropped out of school and worked a waitressing job 10 hours a week maximum. When she wasn't working she stayed at the apartment playing Xbox all day. Another time we broke up recently (last week) because I told her she needed to work more hours or go back to school. She claims she will start working more, but I have yet to see it. I admit I did have a drinking problem but never harmed her. Am I dumb for still trying? should I find a way for her and I to keep working?