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so i had this friend, and he's kinda... interesting... anyway, he's just extremely rude and inconsiderate of my feelings. he over reacts to everything and then plays it off as a joke, and he's just ridiculously rude, i don't know how else to put it. i had been making stickers (something i was really excited about) and wanted to surprise all my friends with these awesome personalized stickers, and i was so excited to give him his, because i worked hard picking them out for him and making them, and i thought that he would be happy and then stop being rude to me. but when i gave them to him, he was like what, i don't want these, why would i need these. and that hurt when he said that, and he probably was joking somewhat, but it really didn't feel like it. i had to make him take them, i told him i made them just for him and that the least he could do was take them. i tried to brush it off because there's no point in getting super upset. but then (he knows what class i have last) when i walked into my last class of the day, he had stuck the stickers i made him to the desk i sit at. the rest of my friends we so happy with the stickers and wanted to put them somewhere they would last a long time, but he just stuck them to some desk the very same day, like he really didn't care about the gift i gave him. after that i was super hurt, i just didn't want to see him, or talk to him. i haven't talked to him since, and the reason i tell myself is that he just really hurt my feelings and I'm tired of feeling that way. he makes me sad and angry and all these negative emotions i don't want to feel. is it considered holding a grudge that i don't want to hang out with him or invite him to group outings when i plan them? I'm afraid that when my other guy friends that are his friends too catch on they will be like WTF why are you holding a grudge, just get over it. what do you think?