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Messed up what had the potential to be a very good thing and now don’t know what to do or think. Thoughts?

I recently met a woman that I found to be both impressive and enticing, rather rare things for me. After speaking for a few weeks we spent a weekend together and everything fell apart. I wasn’t myself emotionally or...
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What is wrong with me?

I've cheated on 3 men and 2 of them we're really good guys like I regret everytime I cheat but I continue to do it anyways 😣 It's always very impulsive and I never think it's because I'm unhappy in the relationship or...
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Girls, Breast massage?

I had been seeing a really great massage therapist at a legitimate big name place (i won't say which one but think Massage Envy/Elements Massage) but she stopped working there a few months ago. I bumped into her last week...
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Girlfriend with social anxiety?

So my girlfriend has social anxiety, and she's seeing a therapist for it. Anyways a few days ago she told me she wants to put our relationship on hold. Because her and her therapist have brought up some stuff from her...
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How to handle a sort of breakup?

I'm 26, I've been dating this guy, 27 for about 7 months. He's genuinely the most wonderful person. I've never been treated so well. We community great and are always kind to each other. He had been seeming a little...
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I visited my family again

So, after I last visited my family ( How telling my parents about my 6mo boyfriend went (they hate him for religious reasons) ), some time had passed and I figured that I had to visit them again for my family's sake....
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How can I get my ex boyfriend back?

We dated for a year and half, he broke up with me after a very rough several months. I love him so much and my insecurities caused me to lash out at him many times. I became emotionally abusive. I was very self hating,...
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What are some signs your ex may be considering getting back together? Break up was quite sudden and im seeing signs he may be interested?

So I've been keeping my distance from him, and only messaging him with things to do with our kids. I'm working on me, learning how to be alone and all round just trying to survive the break up. I do want to work things...
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Alfred Adler [Humanistic] Theory: We All Have One Basic Desire and Goal: To Belong and Feel Significant

So I stumbled across a reference to Alfred Adler today. I decided to do some research. I think I like this fellow. He's my kind of guy. He's a humanist. I think I'm a humanist. Not in any sort of formal or organized way...
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Guys, Have you had depression? How did you want your girl to treat you? Aside from encouraging you to seek professional help, how did she help you?

My guy had a serious disagreement with a few colleagues and he lost his job as a consequence. He really is a very nice guy, but has very low self-esteem. He is seeing a therapist but it's still not helping. He's...
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Girls, Have you had a boyfriend who became depressed? Aside from encouraging him to seek professional help, how else did you help him?

My guy had a serious disagreement with a few colleagues and he lost his job as a consequence. He really is a very nice guy, but has very low self-esteem. He is seeing a therapist but it's still not helping. He's...
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How do you handle dating two people: a girlfriend plus her therapist/life coach?

I had an ex-girlfriend that started seeing a therapist / life coach during our relationship. I think the need for a therapist was triggered by COVID and other life events. After seeing the therapist / life coach, she grew...
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Feels like I'm a bad person?

Intentionally or unintentionally I'm only trying to hurt people or stop them from being happy or in peace. Feel like I'm very sadistic, feminine in nature don't know why from the last 10 years I started seeing the...
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Girls, How do you feel about the idea of a man testing a woman?

Let me set the stage here. A man has been dating a woman for going on 3 years, working his ass off to see her through school. She manages to get a job and the man brings up quitting his job or at the very least...
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Have you ever had a bad therapist? Or just a bad session?

I have had a few sessions with my therapist and it seems each and every time I have left his office feeling worse instead of better. And the last time I saw him I was upset about not having seen my grandmother before she...
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How do I tell a therapist I have dark fantasies?

I’m a combat veteran and have seen a lot of ugly things. I’m starting to see myself getting dark. I’m starting to hate the human race. I fantasies about murdering the man who my wife cheated on me with. I’m starting to...
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I need help, dealing with this breakup from months ago is overwhelming?

I started seeing a therapist and had an intake visit so far. The rest I'm trying to deal with, I want revenge so bad and I spent a month thinking of what I did wrong in the relationship. My ex just never admitted to his...
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I’m really messed up. I’m seeing a therapist in a couple days. Will it make it worse?

I’m afraid that a lot is gonna come to the surface and it really aready is and i’m freaking out. i hate that i’ve never allowed myself to be loved and i think it’s all my fault. im going to be 30 and have been no where...
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I reached out to my ex

After realising that my life would soon change completely, I reached out to my therapist and my ex, mainly because those were the most important people in my life at one point. Why my ex? I had high expectations with my...
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Breaking the cycle - An open discussion about depression

Depression is something I have dealt with my entire life and many millions more in this world face the same daily struggles themselves. While I don't feel there is as big of a social stigma as there used to be, it still...
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