Search Results: shy guy and attraction

What kind of information do you seek about a guy or girl you're interested in?

Think of it this way: You meet a guy for the first time, and you feel some attraction going on there. You feel a little shy, but you ask him a whole lot of questions, trying to learn more about him. What would you like to...

NineBreaker

Yoda Age: 42

Would showing up in nothing but a long coat be sexy or weird?

We have had sex before and dated at one point. We just haven’t since we’ve broken up (bad timing for both of us, breakup amicable). We are still on good terms, talk each day, attraction is still there etc. Would it be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What's a story of your first kiss? Are you happy about how it went and who was the person?

My first kiss was in final year of school, means i was 16 yo. I had a huge crush on this guy who was 3 years senior to me.. since I was in 9th grade. I had told this to my best friend.. aparently whos brother was also a...

21browngirl

Xper 6 Age: 29

Is it true that most women are attracted to confidence rather than looks?

Over the years I've listened to lots of men who have had great success with women, and they all say that the thing that women are attracted to the most is confidence. They say that even if the guy is good looking, if the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Do guys think it’s cute when a girl acts nervous around them?

I’m a 17 yr old girl and I recently asked out this guy I really like in my class and he said he would like to get to know me better. I can hold a conversation with him and I like talking with him but I get pretty nervous....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Answer please. Should I risk the friendship by telling him I might have stronger feelings for him or should I wait and see what happens?

I have a male friend whom I friendzoned 2 years ago. I liked him a lot but felt no attraction as he's a bit childish and unemployed. Plus we have a 3 hour distance. He's shy so on top of this he's been stiff the few times...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

What does it mean when a girl is greatfull for understanding her?

There's this girl that I know, we rarely have an actual long conversation due to the frequent interruptions. his girl is mostly shy (when she's with me). She has shown some signs of attraction. She wrote me in a note...

Derick529

Xper 5 Age: 29

Is it okay for men in their 40s/50s to be attracted/date women in their early 20s?

My friends and I had this HEATED debate today regarding large age gap relationships between older men and younger women. The current situation of a 50 year old man and I (21) sparked the conversation because I have an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it a good sign if a guy is nervous or shy around you?

Is this a good thing? Is it a sign of attraction?

LalaMeme

Xper 4 Age: 26

Why can't this girl find a relationship?

a good friend of mine has been perpetually single since before she started her Master's programme at uni, which she's now finishing up. She works at a student café and is universally adored by literally everyone...

justWTFisGoingOn

Xper 4 Age: 32

What does it mean when a girl touches your fingers and/or hands?

A girl that I've known for a few months started to show signs of attraction towards me (she started lightly). As the weeks pass by, she has kept her hand very close to mine (as in millimeters apart of each one). This has...

Derick529

Xper 5 Age: 29

Does he miss talking to me or what?

I used to talk to this guy at work when met there in the summer and got to know each other more when we were at our work party in the summer etc. Felt some attraction there Anyway I asked him out over Instagram as he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy wanted to bang you, he would text you, right?

I've met this guy several times at various volunteer events. The first couple times he met me, he kept checking me out very obviously and grinning at me from across the room (he's not remotely shy). He finally introduced...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does male coworker act flirty/friendly then completely distant?

I need some insight: I recently got hired at probably the first job I’ve ever actually loved and I was lucky to get, working at a middle school as an aide to two male teachers. I am an attractive female (30’s) about 11...

sadiefluff

Xper 5 Age: 44

Proximity attraction?

I'm talking with a guy (there's a girl nearby too), I've known them for some time (months). Then the girl comes by (closer) and stands 1 feet (or less) from me (our hips were the closest). I was standing there and she was...

Derick529

Xper 5 Age: 29

Shy Guy 101 - Day Two

First, in last week’s installment of Shy Guy 101, you were told to give yourself a homework assignment. What was your assignment? Did you complete it? Tell me about that experience. Shy Guys 101 - Day One You came back...

OlderAndWiser

Editor Age: 71

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Relationships

Should I dip out on this dream or try to stay on his radar?

So there's this guy that I liked in HS... I was IN LOVE with him but was too shy to even try. I haven't seen him in 9 years. He walked into a bar and he had only gotten taller and more handsome 😍 The room actually slowed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are the signs of a girl wanting to date you?

And by that I don't mean signs of attraction, unless its all connected. There's this girl that sometimes it looks like she's trying to get my attention. One of the things she had said was: "It looks like I'm dating...

Derick529

Xper 5 Age: 29