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I am at the end of my patience. I usually dont do things like this, (tell a guy I have feelings for him) but I've been so lonely at college and I don't know, I'm angry at myself rn.

So it all started a few weeks ago. he saw me playing a game on my computer in the lab, and said, "oh you play that too? thats so cool!" and I said yeah and asked for his username on the site. and he typed it in for me. Then, there was a meeting for people who were fans of the game and we were both there and the sparks just flew. He was asking me questions about myself to keep the convrsation going and went out of his way to shake my hand and tell me it was nice to meet me for the second time when it was time for me to go.
After that, things got funny. Once, he came in the lab and we started grinning at each other and he came over to tell me what a great job i was doing with the game i was playing. I grinned and told him I was using the hint button. he playfuly said 'you cheater' and went over to his usual seat. The day after this I was nervous and I decided to sit in the main library instead of in the lab. he saw me.
I was in the lab thouhg after that everyday waiting for him so I could see him. He NEVER came in. and this is SO not like him. he's ALWAYS in the lab. SO FINLLAY, he comes in, with a haircut, and goes to his seat adn sits down to work. wehn he gets up to leave, I look at him to see if he'll look at me to say hi, and he didn't, he just walked out?
Then he invited me to play that same night on teh site. I said 'sorry!' about missing his invite because I wasn't online. he didn't text anything back!
Then I waited some more days for him in the lab, and today I see him when I walk in, and he smiles at me and waves from his seat and I grin at him. I don't know. maybe he was just being friendly. but I'm crazy about him
(read part 2 please!)

FIrst he came over smiling and said, 'wow, you are really killing it!' in regards to my thing I was working on the computer. and then I was grinning adn i said I was using the hint button and he said 'cheater' in a playful way
was he flirting?

I’ve been with this guy for around 5 months and officially together for almost 3. I thought we had a great relationship and he clearly loves and adores me and does everything he can to provide and protect me, however one particular issue had come up twice. We spoke extensively about our sexual pasts because we believe we have a right to know what kind of person we’re getting into relations with, and there was a story he told me which didn’t add up. He got annoyed at me and attempted to gaslight me and make me feel crazy when I expressed my suspicions but it ended up coming out that he was telling me lies because he slipped up in his story.

I take gaslighting very seriously and was going to dump him, so I moved out for a few days. He extensively apologised and promised to be truthful and I decided to forgive him despite this red flag. I asked him a few times if there is anything else in his past that he thinks he should tell me and he strongly said no. A month after this whole incident I decided to go through his laptop which he is usually extremely protective over and I found a bunch of bookmarks of escorts near our area and their websites and various chat rooms.

This is very worrying to me because I am aware that he had an addiction to escorts and porn in the past but he gave me the impression this was long over. It is also highly possible that he could be cheating on me. I also feel betrayed because I specifically asked him if he had been meeting escorts recently when we first started seeing each other and he denied it. To me these findings mean he is either a cheater or a liar. He is at work right now and doesn’t know I have seen all of this but I am wondering if I should dump him tonight or not?