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On a different social app, I posted about resisting the sexual advances of my friends wife. I hung out with her and another friend Saturday night to drink and chill. His wife gets very flirty when she's drunk. My married friend is aware of how his wife acts when she's drunk. But he is usually there to police her behavior. And the rest of his friends (including me) are all use to it. It gives us a good laugh when she gets that way. However Saturday night my married friend was out of town. His wife was more aggressive than her usual. I still rebuffed her and left after I knew she'd be ok to sleep off the liquor.

I posted about this incident on another social app to congratulate myself for holding firm in the face of temptation. Other users responded negatively like I was the bad guy. I was called a "tool". Why am I the bad guy here?

A lot of guys on here look at submissiveness as being delicate and soft spoken. Just doing whatever their told like a mindless puppet. Yeah, that last part is by definition submissiveness, but I've never looked at it this way. Soft spoken girls who are shy and delicate have never really attracted me because it reeks of a lack of confidence and assertiveness. Delicate and shy people generally aren't very successful.

I like a woman who's confident enough to say what's on her mind and not too shy to show the world what she's about. If a woman is submissive to everyone and every situation, then what does her submission even mean? It means nothing because it's not earned. That type of girl would be the first to cheat on you as well.

My girl would be considered extremely dominant by most men who she comes across. She's aggressive and she's by no means afraid to say what's on her mind. She's a natural leader. Having said that, she's extremely submissive, but only to me because I earned that side of her through time and trust. Her finally trusting me enough to lead the relationship meant 10x more to me than a girl who just hands it overlike nothing.

The most aggressive women in my experience seem to be the most submissive, loyal, and they also seem to make the best girlfriends/wives. It just takes the right guy to get them to that point. Anyone else on board with me here?