Search Results: husband attention

Is my ex husband trying to make me jealous, just be cruel or does he have regrets?

My X cheated on me. I tried to work it out for over 2 years but the other woman was still in the picture. We were HS sweethearts and have 2 kids. He moved out one year and I filed a few months later. He was mad I filed....

peanut03

Xper 5 Age: 57

My husband and I are separated, is he now playing games?

My husband of 2 years, (together for 10 years) left me 6 months ago. He said he was miserable and didn't feel anything for me anymore. Before this he lost weight in a short space of time going to the gym where he received...

kellyisconfused

Xper 5 Age: 44

Is he just messing with my head? How come he wasn't this way before??

Anonymous

(30-35)

OK well I was seeing this guy, kinda open relationship, or friends with benefits but we did more than just sex. Well my dumb ass ended up telling him I loved him.. Which I do, it hurts

OK well I was seeing this guy, kinda open relationship, or friends with benefits but we did more than just sex. Well my dumb ass ended up telling him I loved him.. Which I do, it hurts to think about how I can't have him. He has always been kinda distant because he was hurt by his only wife of 6 years, she cheated, now he don't trust anyone it seems. Well I have never got him to tell me he loved me back, he was always just good to me, kissed me on my hand and tells me he appreciates me, and my shoulder, just an all around great guy.. Well the only thing is he seems reserved! and after loving him this whole past year I'm trying to move on because I really don't think I could go through that much pain, I'm trying to bring it down to a friends level... so I don't get hurt.. so I basically get back with my ex husband and trying to fix my marriage with him, all the sudden I tell the other guy and now he is like saying stuff to me like "be careful dear" "If I wasn't working sweetie I would love to be spending my time with you" or If I tell him somewhere I am at he always says "I wish our schedules weren't opposite, I really miss you" ummm you guys! this dude has never been like this, so since he knows I love him to death is he messing with me because he knows I love him? is this just a head game? I have never known him to play head games.. he is a very serious person, but always the funnest to be around. I love him and we have everything in common but how come at the point I'm telling him I love him he had nothing to say, and now that my attention is for my husband he is saying all this stuff to me? is it just a tease? does he maybe love me and trying to express it before its too late? I'm really lost, he seems so different, I like it, but how come he wasn't this way before? by the way don't point fingers, my husband used to drink heavily and we had a lot of domestics and I figured one more chance for him... basically trying to make myself love my husband again, this other guy has really got me bad!

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The experts are right... treat a women like crap and she'll love you more!

OK first of all... this girl posted the above statement in her "details" and it threw me for whirl! This is what’s wrong with Women these days (certainly not me!) They strive to feel even the smallest amount of...

01bimmer85

Xper 6 Age: 41

How should I handle this without being rude?

Four months ago my husband of 16 years left me for someone else, I was and still am absolutely devastated by it, but the advice I need has to do with a male friend of mine, I've known him 7 years, we are not very close,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I'm married but can't stop thinking about another man?

Met this guy at a work conference and we immediately connected on many different levels. I've been married 18 years and never had a single inclination to step out...until this guy. We spent hours talking about life,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Marriage & Weddings

My husband wants to seperate?

Long story short.. A few weeks ago my husband suddenly wants to separate.. I stayed away for a few weeks and am now living back home in OUR house. He stays here as well and has been sleeping on the couch. I've asked him...

Bsmaynard

Xper 5 Age: 40

My guy friend is always hugging me...

So I have this friend who is married and he's one of those really friendly happy people. but lately he seems a little TOO friendly. he's always hugging me and rubbing my back and laying his head on my shoulder. it's a...

beemad

Xper 5 Age: 44

Relationships

I meet this really beautiful lady that can't get her eyes off me. She's married. What do I do? Any Ideas?

I want to be her friend. Every time she approaches me their this connection. I'm just so surprised my heart just sinks because this very pretty lady is looking at me like that. She is from Sweden. She is a professor at a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

I have to leave my marriage, I have an 8 month old...how do I do it?

I feel pretty foolish sitting here googling advice hoping that something is going to just jump out at me and all my problems would be solved. If only things were that easy. Here is the back story, I have been with my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are all guys egomaniacs?

The guy I currently like is messing me around jus for the attention. My best friends boyfriend recently broke up with her for a really selfish reason. Even my friends mum told us before she got married her husband broke...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

If he is so "drawn" to me, why isn't my phone ringing?

Whoa! About six months ago my best friends husband introduced me to his friend. We went on a few dates. There was an obvious connection... I practically had to run to keep myself from getting physical with him....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Fashion & Beauty

How do I get over a guy who has lied/cheated on me, and then accuses me

I have been with a guy for a year and a half, to make a long story short when he met me I was in a relationship and confused about it, we exchanged numbers and he pursued me until I agreed to meet him out, what followed...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it okay for me to get rid of my ex's stuff, if he has not come back after 6 months?

We were engaged, and living together. I Found out I did not love him in the way I wanted to love my husband( So I called off the engagement) Well He took that as Get out of my house and left. then he dumped me. but told...

cherrykitty

Xper 5 Age: 36

Not sure whether to pursue this girl or not. She might be interested, am I fooling myself?

This girl said "we should get married" and nicknamed me husband for a while. Always gives me big hugs, sometimes from behind. Comes to my basketball games. Held my hand once. Touched my face. Always tries to get my...

alltheabove1212

Yoda Age: 36

Girls, would you do this to a guy you were "just friends" with?

You joke and call him "husband". You give him big hugs whenever you see him. Hug him from behind. Make physical contact. Give him a big hug even when he's sweaty after watching his basketball game. Smile and look into his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I feel like guys are more judgmental and expect so much with me, more than other women?

okay now this is kind of hard to explain so I'll try my best. it seems like no matter what I do it is never enough. men always seem to expect more from me and they judge me constantly. I have many large female friends who...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did I make the right move here to build attraction?

This girl used to call me husband as a nickname. We flirted and joked. Then I joked that we should divorce-she was fine with it. She didn't show as much interest as before. So I stopped showing interest. I only responded...

alltheabove1212

Yoda Age: 36