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1. We've seen each other off and on for about 2 years. and by "seen" I mean it has never been official because he was not over a recent ex (who he had been with for years)
2. Last year when we were "seeing" each other I would often end it, but come back again because I missed him.
3. we did and do things besides have sex and i have met most of his close friends.
4. when he saw me kiss another guy months and months ago things got really heated, he never admitted that that was why, but he was very. very mad.
5. I didn't contact him for months and then I started getting calls and texts from him, sometimes in the afternoon, sometimes in the middle of the night.
6. I responded and we saw each other again and for the first few times we hung out it was really, truly wonderful. we didn't hook up the first time we saw each other, and he was fine with that.
7. When I brought up what we were doing he got defensive and we got in a fight about who was ruining "the thing" that we had.
8. I told him I would never talk to him again if he left that night and he said I know you don't mean that, don't say that. I told him I really cared about him, he told me he really cared about him, I told him I had really missed him, he told me he had missed me and that was why he had been calling. I asked him if he wanted to talk about this another time and said he wanted to so I called him two weeks later.
9. we hung out again a few days ago and when I asked him about the talk he jokingly kind of pretended like he didn't remember. I told him we needed to have that talk at some point or things would get bad again and he said he knew that. So we had a really good time after that, but we did not talk about what we were.
10. last way we left it was me asking him if he wanted to come over this weekend, he said he'd be gone during the week but would be back for the weekend. gave me a big, long hug goodbye and kissed me on my cheek.

what does he want?