I'm not anybody's type. Most people eventually finds someone who's a good match for them; Im 23 & still haven't.. do I need to change myself?

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I'm 23 years old, I've dated guys in the past, have had relationships but never truly felt that any of them were the right guy for me and none of my relationships have lasted. I am truly starting to feel that I may not be the type of girl that guys want to date.
I know I am an attractive girl, I'm very smart, I have good style and take care of myself, I'm nice but I would call myself a serious person, and maybe a little reserved and guarded. I don't trust people or let them in easily and honestly in today's world I don't think that's necessarily such a bad thing. I always see people find their "right match" and I'm happy for them and sort of amazed at how it worked out for them. Cause for the past 2 years I've been single but wanting to date someone and as I've gotten older, I've learned not to just date anyone because if their not right for me it won't work out. Now I know everyone's going to say wait for it it will find you, and as much as I'd like to believe that, I have been waiting, I have put myself out there and honestly all it's been is mostly uncomfortable and forced situations, sometimes even rejection cause I find a guy I really like but then I'm not his type and it sucks for me cause I feel disappointed and sort of discouraged by the whole idea of dating. I've heard from some people that at first I come off as an unapproachable and kind of "bitchy" person but I mean I guess that's just my face.. It's really not my attitude lol. But I don't want to feel that I have to change myself or my ways or my "face" to get a date... I want to believe that there is someone who will see my not to approachable and maybe even "bitchy" face and be like okay this girls my type, this is what I like, I wanna get to know her and find out that I'm not a bitch after all lol but I'm starting to feel that maybe I do need to change somethings.. whatever it is that has kept me single and in unsuccessful relationships for all of these years.
I'm not anybody's type. Most people eventually finds someone who's a good match for them; Im 23 & still haven't.. do I need to change myself?
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