Should I just accept i'll never find someone my type?

[Anonymous]

I'm dating a girl who is nice, we get along but certain differences amongst us always create tough situations.

[WindAtMyBack]

It depends on how realistic your expectations are, and how you deal with the many things about her that are not ideal. It also depends on how many women you are meeting.

But no, you should not accept never finding someone. Never is a very long time and you can't predict the future. You might want to take a good look at your expectations and check if you are limiting your chances too much. You might also look at how well you accept differences and negatives about a potential partner.

There is a lot of ground between "not perfect" and "deal breaker". You need to find the right balance.

[lightbulb27]

not at that age, I know you think life is over... dude it's just getting started. you got a lot of time left.

whether you stay or go is your choice, you see what you've got. dating isabout learning about yourself... and others. marriage is commitment to the other.

[Adaeva]

Your type may be out of your league and, if so, you will never find and get accepted by your type.

[whirled_up_girl]

It's more just accept that dating isn't that easy most of the time.

[OlderAndWiser]

It's difficult to respond to such a vague post. Details would help.

[Guy13]

Yeah man, with that attitude you better latch in to the next thing that says 👋.

[SnowedIn]

But that's life. No one human is an exact match. And, by the way, if they are today, they'll change in five years or ten or the five after that. And so will you.

You should accept yes, but that's not settling or giving in. It's admitting that you and they are human.

[WellGreetingsISay]

You'll never find the "perfect" girl, but you can find one that is almost exactly what you want from each other. After that, you both put an effort in to grow towards each other and perhaps small changes in opinions until you're both where you want to be together

[genericname85]

you'll never find a partner that you won't have any differences with. and you won't find a partner that you don't have "tough situations with". but you can have a partner that's good and efficient in solving tough situation in a cooperative and non abusive/manipulative way.

[LiamJHayden]

"I'm dating a girl who is nice, we get along but certain differences amongst us always create tough situations."

That is how you will both grow as people. Good conflict resolution skills are indispensable in a long term relationship.

[Juxtapose]

All these people here are shitting on you when in reality you need to be with someone who is going to be good for you and is more entertaining than your solitude.

There are plenty of women I could have stuck around with who would have bored me to tears because we had little in common.

[Twalli]

If you're looking for someone who checks all your boxes, I doubt you'll find them. Look at everything you want in a partner and find out what are just preferences and nor requirements. Then just focus on requirements instead if looking for one that has both

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Mistake #1... STOP LOOKING FOR YOUR TYPE!!!

There is no such thing!!!

I was like you and it cause me lose my virginity in my 30s...

I ended up with complete opposite guy to what i ever liked or had a "type"

We share lotsof basic human values but in general we are literal opposits. Its not onlt Not my type, but the guy i hated and told "Ill never date you"!!!

Here we are 2 years together and very happy, we clicked as a puzzle

[PainusNdeeAnus]

No just don’t take the women you do meet seriously

I’m so over airhead , dingy , stupid women I’m tired of dumbing myself down but it’s hard to find a smart one or at least one with a good head on her shoulders and if I do she’s already taken

[Paul09]

I'm kind of like that. But it's more , I like someone they don't like me, or someone likes me and i don't like them. Getting to know someone is the best way to really know if they are for you. I find dates you really don't. Kind of have to force and see where it goes. Would be so much easier through Friends. But that's rare. I have to accept I'll be single forever. Unless I make some changes.

[FilmGuy93]

I guess it depends on what separates this girl from your type. No one will ever be a totally perfect match, but most people with reasonable standards can find someone who checks a lot of the boxes.

[summiter]

Relationships take work, patience and a lot of give and take on both sides. Are you sexually involved with your current girlfriend?

[Asker]

Yes.

[summiter]

How is your sex life with her... is that what is causing issues?

[Ligerzzero]

No such thing as the perfect girl, you can find one that’s close.

I’ve given up on finding my exact type I want because especially in my town less than 1% of the women are fit.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Keep holding out for your "type" and you'll end up alone.
True love will be with someone you never thought you'd date in a million years.
The universe works in mysterious ways

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Maybe. But consider this; Far better than any dream girl, is one of flesh and blood. Warm, caring, and right before your eyes.

[Keishio]

You're dealing with human beings, you can't expect someone to fit you like a glove. Relationships will always encounter friction but if you see that as a red flag in every relationship then you'll never be happy with anyone

[Anonymous]

You can be a quitter like most men on here, or you can look for someone else. Your choice.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Rude!

[Anemone978]

Yeah you probably should... I have given up completely...

[Anonymous]

Your type in what? Some people are physically it, others are emotionally, etc. maybe you won't have someone tick all your boxes, maybe you will.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm going to withhold judgement on your situation before I gather more facts.
What are the differences you have with this girl that you're currently talking to?

[Snakeyes7]

Make yourself a priority. If women want to date you, good. If not that's their problem, provided you have everything it takes to be a good partner.

[Justneedtokno]

Nope you can take a break but never give up there way too many people in the world

[scott04sa22]

Either keep her or let her go. I didn’t find someone who fits me until I was 36

[OddBeMe]

the fact you think you have “a type” is why your single.

[ERB62]

Some of us are pretty much cut out to be single I am one of them

[krin_m]

I'm sure you will find someone and when you actually are not looking!

[Anonymous]

I dont think anybody should settle. Its not fair to yourself or the person you’re with.

[infamousFRM]

Billions of women on earth you'll find one eventually

[Anonymous]

No, there is about 4 billion women on this planet so you still have a chance

[KaiidiraX]

Accept nothing.

[Agape93]

@PrettyPriya number one

[PrettyPriya]

What's up? 🙂

[Agape93]

Tagged you to the same content between two users. New troll.

[sheenagwapa]

i don't even believe in love anymore

[Sasha0426]

Then she ain’t for you.

[AsaKyo]

What is your type?

[Anonymous]

Yes. Not many are so lucky.

[Anonymous]

No one finds a perfect partner.

[Iron_Man]

Find a girl at church

[Mayo503]

Aww you never know at least you can try

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Stay with her, yo.

[In_Trance]

What does that even mean

[Manuel2]

Yes you will.
But married to the wrong man

[noohair]

What do you expect? What is your type?

[LazerBean]

Sure, go ahead.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Rude!

[LazerBean]

He asked and I answered.

What's rude is asking someone a direct question then immediately blocking them so they can't answer. And then unblocking them to ask them why they haven't answered, and then blocking them again so that they still can't answer. That's what your single mom Karen friend loves to do 😉

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah but she’s such a sweet woman tho. You had to have really hit a nerve for her to do that

[LazerBean]

She's a sweet woman who plays immature mind games? LMAO. Yeah, I will agree that all four+ times she has blocked me it has been because I pointed out that she was complaining about others treating her the exact same way that she treats others first.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well I think you’re oversimplifying things there

[LazerBean]

Keep telling yourself that. While you're at it, why don't you tell her that you're interested in "ruining" your white genes by marrying a traditional non-white girl and having mixed babies and see how she reacts 😘

[WhiteBoyChill]

Wdym? You’re mischaracterizing her

[LazerBean]

She very specifically said that white people do not mix, that non-white people need to stick to marrying their own race, and that mixing races ruins bloodlines. How exactly did I mischaracter her?

[bingbongbangbung]

actually mixing with different people prevents inbreeding lol

[LazerBean]

So does knowing someone before you have sex with them.

[LazerBean]

I do get your point though and agree, a lot of times mixing races produces more healthy genetics.

[WhiteBoyChill]

That’s her opinion though. I see nothing wrong with it

[LazerBean]

Yeah that's her opinion, I agree. That's why I told you to go inform her that you plan to do the exact thing she hates and see how sweet she continues to be to you. Also don't think I didn't notice that you declined to answer how I mischaractered her.

[LazerBean]

And also don't think I didn't notice that you never responded when I asked you what racism meant in your opinion.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Racism is hatred for other races and that’s never a view I’ve seen her express

[WhiteBoyChill]

And she’ll still support me as a person regardless of what I end up doing

[LazerBean]

But you're not going to tell her because you know I'm right. But let's just put things into perspective here. If I tell you that you should not breed because the children you produce will end up ruined because of the genetics you gave them, that doesn't seem at all like I and being hateful or looking down on you?

[WhiteBoyChill]

The reason I’m not gonna tell her is because unlike you, I’m not the kinda person that has to broadcast my life in everybody else’s face

[WhiteBoyChill]

That isn't what she said tho. She never said it was wrong for Asian couples to have babies

[LazerBean]

Answer the question, because I am applying exactly what she said about mixing whites with non-whites to you. And you can say that all you want, but both of us know that's not true. She already stated that non-white women who wear a white men are bitches, and do you think that if you ever manage to Mary an Asian chick that she's somehow going to make an exception for her? And how do you think that hypothetical Asian wife is going to feel about her when she finds out that Karen is against the whole marriage? I want you to really start thinking ahead a little bit.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Whoever said I was deadset on marrying an Asian? I just floated it as an idea

[LazerBean]

Are you going to answer or just keep deflecting? Also that's why I said "if" and "hypocritical". But I know you are aware of that and are just asking questions as your weak deflection.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Wdym. I’d have no problem if she gave her opinion on something I asked about

[WhiteBoyChill]

The thing is, I won’t ask about it tho so can we actually like stay on topic?

[LazerBean]

We are on topic. You still haven't answered the question. Did you forget it already? Do I need to send you a step by step on how to scroll up?

[WhiteBoyChill]

I still don’t know wtf the question even supposedly was

[LazerBean]

So that's a yes, you are too stupid to know how to scroll up and need a step by step tutorial. Are you on computer or phone?

Here I'll just copy and paste the question since you're too incompetent to do it yourself.

If I tell you that you should not breed because the children you produce will end up ruined because of the genetics you gave them, does that seem at all like I and being hateful or looking down on you?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Wtf? I answered that already.

Your question there is irrelevant as I pointed out. She didn’t say your genetics were so fcked you shouldn’t have children with anybody just that the interracial stuff’s no good

[LazerBean]

No, you didn't answer. And it's not because it's irrelevant, its because you know the obvious logic that follows is that yes it is hateful, and if it's hateful when applied to an individual then it is hateful when applied to a whole group of people. Which means that even with your pathetically underplayed, kiss ass definition of racism it is still racism. If your genetics can ruin the genetics they combine with, it's because they're inferior.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Not necessarily. I mean she did say “white people don’t mix well” so is that not a deficiency of white people? She’s saying you could have interracial babies with anybody else and it would be all good

[WhiteBoyChill]

You just sound like a snowflake to me. So much for all this “tough love” act you always love to put on

[LazerBean]

No, she did not say "white people don't mix well", she said "white people don't mix." So you just lied. You're really trying to gaslight me and say you don't think it's hateful to say white people shouldn't marry other races, even though you thought it was rude that I answered "yeah" to someone asking a yes or no question. Gaslighting, lying, and refusing to answer questions in an argument are all snowflake liberal traits, which is exactly what I expected from an emasculated boy like you and is exactly why no conservative women are ever interested in you and you feel the need to look to poor and desperate countries for a woman who will respect you.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Lol. I’m not the one that’s getting all emotional here. Let’s be honest with ourselves.

[LazerBean]

I am being honest, you're the one who is by dictionary definition a liar.

[WhiteBoyChill]

And by the way, it’s crystal clear to everyone reading this that you’ve turned yourself into a victim. Why does her opinion bother you so much? Who gives a fck?

[WhiteBoyChill]

And don’t you realize calling people liars is what the left always does?

[LazerBean]

I'm not surprised you say that because it's clear that you have very little exposure to socialization with conservatives. But I'm actually so glad you brought that up because statistics say that out of about 50 people, only you and one or maybe two others disagree with me. And we all know which side likes to ignore facts and statistics 😂

[LazerBean]

Also this is literally and opinion forum genius 🧠

[WhiteBoyChill]

Really not sure where you’re going with this

[WhiteBoyChill]

If you were to ask most leftists on this site, they’d overwhelmingly hold negative opinions of me

[LazerBean]

That's either another lie or your mental deficiency speaking. Maybe you should ask your daddy and he can explain it to you in small words. I'm going to cut it off now because it's getting late and it really requires the other person being able to use basic logic to have a discussion anyway. Take your parents advise and stay in college 😊 bye

[WhiteBoyChill]

Lol says the one that lacks the mental maturity to not get offended

[Anonymous]

Don’t lose your hope 🙂🙂🙂♥️☺️♥️♥️🦢♥️✌🏻🥲♥️🦢🦢

[TheSpaceGnome]

Never settle.

[rabbitzzz]

Yes.