Should I just accept I will never find anyone my type?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It just depends on what your type. Is , sometimes we have high expectations on what we want out of a partner and sometimes those expectations are way too far fetched , it’s ok to have preferences but to hold those preferences 100 percent you will realize that it is stupid to do that. The only reason is , because none of us are perfect people, We are all imperfect in ways , The only way a relationship will survive is if you and your partner except each other’s flaws , if you can’t remove selfishness inside yourself and accept your partners flaws, they will not be able to remove them for you , it will lead to a one sided relationship that will end badly. , Love only grows when we learn to remove selfishness and accept each others flaws , No relationship is perfect so for it to survive you both have to put in 100 percent and understand it won’t always be your way , wear each others shoes before making decisions and make each other your top priority no matter what and you will see love grow because you both with have respect for each other

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Well, you post a selfie of yourself with every post... so that is very suggestive of the type of person you are. So, I do not know what to tell you, you attract what you put out into the world.

So, if you want to put out nothing but cute selfies of yourself, then yeah you will only attract people that are into you for superficial reasons, because you are projecting yourself as a superficial person.

But I really dig, the pale blue eyes and dark hair, it's kind of my thing... so what's your sign?

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

The way to get a secure match is to find somebody with the same age range and lifestyle goals as you, or at least one who can compliment you, like my friend is a good driver and amazing child care provider but she is a bad money maker and her husband is a good money maker, but a weak driver and poor child care provider, so they compliment each other.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

You go right ahead, just like the blue account that posted this exact same question needs to do.

Guy13 · Answer

You’re wholesomely beautiful. What is your type please?

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Depends on how rigid you are on your "type". Obviously, you are an attractive young woman, but if your buying into the whole you deserve a 6 ft model type guy in that 0.02 percentile of the population, then your luck may run out someday before you meet him.

In the meantime, I would look to guys in your circle, people you can trust and start there. They may not be exactly what your looking for, but they maybe what you need!

Your still really young too, so you have plenty of life to live and lots of places to go before you meet the guy of your dreams. May as well have some fun in the meantime.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Well, more and more men from your generation subscribe to the belief that they can't learn skills to become more successful at dating women. So if young women want to find decent men, you may have to develop those skills yourself.

I have created several takes on how men can realize more success in the dating game. Each take has gotten overrun with men complaining that nothing they do will work. And they appear to want women to develop the masculine traits needed to court and go on dates.

All I can wish you is good luck.

WaterIsland · Answer

It depends on your type. The reality is that everyone is different, and being too picky likely won’t lead to good results. You have to get to know someone, and see if they’re compatible. Having a checklist for “type” isn’t gonna work out for you. But high level overall things, you’ll find your person if you stick with it.

RavVid · Answer

Well if your type is a 6' 6" billionaire then you probably should accept you won't meet your type. That's partly joke because it is fairly easy to subset down to a point there won't be any men left in your type subset.

Saw a funny youtube where a matchmaker goes through the demographics of three girls requirements. I think you should work out how many men there are that satisfy your type.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Try to compromise on one or two things. Let's say man or woman A fits all of your check marks but one, would you reject them or give them a chance based upon what that thing is? For instance, let's say they have an annoying laugh or they like their fingers as they turn the page of a book or they hate a particular food you love, that kind of thing. No one's perfect. I'm not saying you should settle, but don't rule out someone if they don't fit all the imaginary checklist.

Tomisworthless · Answer

Your type is out of your league your confidence is over inflated based on all the comments you get from undesirable men like myself. You then start thinking you’re better than what you actually are and are aiming for a very select few of men who have options better than you, not saying they won’t sleep with you but they surely won’t settle for you just as you won’t settle for the men who like you

Paul09 · Answer

If that's what you think. Then yes. Learn to live with it. I kinda am. But I guess you never really know. We need to put ourselves out there. Less we expose ourselves to the world, the less chances we get. I tried doing things for more women to notice me. But never works in my favour. So I had started awhile back focusing more on myself.

Anonymous · Answer

Like most women, you likely have your standards set to insanely unreachable standards. Check out the female delusion calculator.

Soldieronamission · Answer

You're still pretty young and have time. Do you get out and talk to guys much or how do you meet them?

whirled_up_girl · Answer

A blue anon user asked a similar question. I replied that it's more accept that dating isn't always easy.

exitseven · Answer

I used to think the same thing and was about to give up. The next day I met my future wife.

zagor · Answer

If you have some perfect ideal of what a mate should be, then yes. If you are willing to be flexible and open-minded and accept that no one is perfect, then you should be able to find someone you are compatible with.

es20490446e · Answer

Write down what is your type. Then write down what makes a good partner in general. If they don't look the same, the answer is "yes".

Sour-rose · Answer

Yes. Just because that's an expectation... and many probably won't even come close :c

SnowedIn · Answer

Not necessarily... is your type so specific that the pool is tiny?

slatyb · Answer

Maybe you are just in the wrong place. What's your type?

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

If that type is impossible to find, you might as well, yes :(

Likes2drive · Answer

Depends on what your type is , or if your standard s are too high, you look nice so you must get asked out often. I’m still looking too

AydenHazor · Answer

That depends on what your type is. You're quite attractive and many guys would be glad to get with you

AngryCarl2 · Answer

You have potentially 6 billion partners to choose from. About half that if you're not bisexual. Don't give up while you're above ground.

Kira-kayy · Answer

Your type is out there. Your gorgeous so im sure you will find them soon :) <3

DaveToo · Answer

What's your type? These open ended questions need to have definition in order for me to answer you.

noohair · Answer

A type, to me, has nothing to do with physical appearance, so I don't know how to answer your question.

LiamJHayden · Answer

It is impossible to know without having the specifics of what you seek.

gorydetails · Answer

Your type is someone who pretends to be a porn star on a 4th-rate advice website?

HaveNoName · Answer

So... what planet does your type come from?

BarryLiverstone · Answer

If you have a specific type ya it’s best to not be distracted

OnTheLevel · Answer

What makes you think you'll never find your type?

Heolurt · Answer

Not if you're picky as hell, but don't lower your standards.

OddBeMe · Answer

If you think you have a type, you‘ll never find anyone,

Chthou95 · Answer

Let me get my violin to play you a sad tune you poor poor thing 😢

weysally · Answer

you look lovely to me,

Agape93 · Answer

@PrettyPriya number two

Miristheiss · Answer

What type is that?

FilmGuy93 · Answer

What's your type?

Crankor · Answer

Depends how long your willing to wait

Mayo503 · Answer

Lol…. So what’s wrong with you then…?

Stevefiveo · Answer

You find someone someday.

Iron_Man · Answer

We are only 26 go to church

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't know. What's your type?

Sparkie460 · Answer

When you stop looking that's When you'll find him

Anonymous · Answer

It just depends on what your type

idkkkkkkkx123 · Answer

No girl don’t give up.

dinojames22 · Answer

No. But out of curiosity... what is your type?

Anonymous · Answer

Well how long you been single now

Anonymous · Answer

What is your type? Black men baby?

EaterPeter · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

jimmy2 · Answer

Baby come find me

riverrat3 · Answer

What is your type

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