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I’ve been seeing someone for a few weeks now and I’ve been enjoying my time with him. We live about an hour away from each other but he makes the drive to me on the weekends when we’re free so we can hang out. We’ve gotten really comfortable with each other (maybe too comfortable, he’s popped a zit on my face) but he has a toothbrush for me at his place.

My biggest issue/pet peeve is communication when we don’t see each other. I have really bad anxiety and when it’s complete silence for days, I always assume the worst and that it’s my fault or I somehow messed things up. We’re both young and he works a ton of odd jobs to make ends meet for himself. Which I understand is rough, he’s completely independent saving up money for law school tuition, rent, food, etc. He had a personal matter that didn’t allow him to work for some time so he’s been trying to catch up on that.

I brought up the communication before when it was radio silence for a few days and told him I assumed he wasn’t interested anymore, and he explained his personal situation. I understand. But the last time we saw each other, I jokingly asked if he’s going to go ghost again. He told me that because he wasn’t able to work for that while, he has a lot to make up in the coming week to make up for all that money he lost. Which means there probably won’t be time for our usual phone calls (they’re long and the nature of his jobs don’t allow him to get on the phone and I completely understand why).

It’s been about a week and I haven’t heard a word. I know he’s fine, he shared a post on his Facebook. I was upset because a simple text would have taken that same amount of time. At the same time, I’ve also been in situations where I don’t talk to people but I’ll be active on my social media.

Guys, because he warned me in advance that it would be a busy week or more trying to make up for all the money he lost, is that a legit excuse to be silent for so long?

So for the longest time (over a year) I've been trying to make something work with a guy.. in the beginning i wasn't ready and kind of lead him on.. there were just a lot of issues and arguments going on but we both still wanted to make it work.. when i was in a relationship he just wish i gave him a chance etc. When my ex and I broke up i messaged him and we tried to meet up and we talked on the phone and at one point he seemed upset.. anyways a few months go by and I message him and i called him to try one last time (I don't know why) and he was short with me.. told me he was on and off with this girl. One minute he says their talking and the next their not. 3 months later i find out he's engaged.

He was the same religion as me but was from a background where i believe they do arranged marriages. The girl is the same background as him (i believe) he always told me he didn't get along with his parents