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Both personal attributes have both genetic and environmental impacts. Also looks will inevitably fade with age. However there are still some very attractive older people (Jennifer Anniston & Brad Pitt defied Father Time for a long time).

But would it be tougher for a woman who is 50lbs overweight to get fit & lean? Or is it tougher for a naturally introverted and shy man to learn to be outgoing, funny and confident?

Obvious that is stereotyped for what is most attractive for each gender. Women can always improve their personalities and men can improve their physiques to be more attractive.

But in my bias opinion personality is tougher to change. Because it’s not a hard science like physical fitness. Obvious physical fitness is impacted by genetics, age and engrained eating habits. But any determined man or woman can make major improvements with changes in diet and hard exercise.

Personality change requires constant attention of your thought patterns, quick thinking responses to people, eye contact, verbal timing, tone of voice. Also your very appearance (young/old, high/low voice tone, gender, physique) in itself can impact how your personality comes across. It also requires psychological bravery/judgment on whether you need a confrontation vs. resisting saying/doing something stupid.
in my opinion personality it tougher to change. Certain occupations (military), sports and activities (theatre/improv) can influence it. But it pretty much set early in life and impacted genetically.

I'm 6ft overweight M White aged 56. Always dated younger as younger women are the ones who showed me interest Would You date me and your adult age?

1. Am 25 years old
2. 5 feet 6 inches in height
3. Overweight at the moment weighing in the 220s (working on losing the weight)
4. On social security disability and unemployed
5. Lives at home still
6. I am a self taught amateur programmer at the moment
7. I am enrolled in uni and start classes on Tuesday
8. I lean conservative politically.
9. I voted for Donald Trump and will again
10. I am southern (come with the accent and everything)
11. I have Aspergers and mental health issues (they are improving overtime)
12. I have a criminal conviction of stalking and harassment (I served 3 years probation for it)
13. I have been hospitalized over 13 times in my life involuntarily
14. I still crush on high school girls
15. I am a loving, giving person who would fall madly in love when I do
16. I am not a virgin. I lost my virginity at age 20 to a 16 year old girl who was also a virgin. She never wanted anything to do with me after that.
17. I never had an actual girlfriend. While I am not a sexual virgin, I am a relationship virgin.

I seek the following:
I seek an attractive girl 17 or older (but probably at least 18) who has never had a romantic bond before. Meaning no previous boyfriends or even male best friends whom she was close to and had feelings for in her youth. That is the main requirement. Essentially, I want a girl that has never had her first love before. This has nothing to do with her sexual past, but everything to do with who she shared her heart with before.

I prefer (but not necissarily a requirement) a shy girl. A girl who is submissive and cute would be nice.