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I moved here 9 years ago, I was 19 when I got the keys, I was positive confident and motivated to embarking on my new life.
Anyways, it started off rather miserable, I'd split from my boyfriend again. And the guy below me was causing me undue amounts of stress.

Over time I became anxious and incredibly withdrawn, I started to lose friends and well my life's basically gone downhill.
Socially anyways.

So here I am.

About to go out for a bike ride when my neighbour comes out for a chat. (nasty neighbour)

He tells me that he's moving hopefully within a few weeks. That he has had enough of some other people that have moved in as they've caused a lot of issues here.

He apologised for the way he treated me.
It's funny because I couldn't understand why he targeted me.

For a period of time I could only believe it was because I'm Black.

I'm the only single Black female in this building.

It totally destroyed me especially as I never had parties or disturbed the peace. For the most part I had a full time job so I had no time to really socialise with my neighbours.

All I can say is this is the end of an era. We shook hands and I wished him well.

I never had ill feelings towards him, I just didn't understand why he didn't leave me alone, I did start to go into a really dark place as the things he was doing really singled me out.

Yes I did report him, which is why he eventually stopped.
It seems there is light at the end of the tunnel 👍🏾