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Example 1:

A man decides to cheat on his wife with a girl he has been dating on the side. The girl on the side has FULL knowledge that he is married and decides to have sex with him anyway. Her claim is that, "It's not my fault that HE decided to cheat on HER. As such, BECAUSE it was HIS choice, I am absolved of any guilt."

Example 2:

A man decides to sell cocaine on the street. Personally, he has never and would never take cocaine himself because he knows of the addictive and destructive side effects. He is simply a seller for those who wish to buy his product. His claim is "it is not my fault that these people have decided to destroy their own lives. They are adults and they are free to make their own choices. I am simply making a profit off of a life choice they have already made on their own."

Do you believe the girl on the side in Example 1 is guilty?

On the same hand, do you believe the drug dealer in Example 2 is guilty?

Here's the scenario:
Sally is an attractive 24 year old woman. She has had 8 sexual partners and is completely free of stds. Her first partner was her childhood sweetheart. They dated for a year before the relationship became sexual. Unfortunately a few months after the relationship became sexual, her "sweetheart" cheated on her. Sally was devastated and ended up having 2 drunken one night stands with guys she met at the club. She then decided that she doesn't want any more one night stands, but she also isn't ready for a relationship. Her next 5 partners were friends with benefits type relationships that lasted 1-3 months each. Then after partner number 8 Sally was starting to want to settle down and this is when met a guy named Bob. Bob is the type of guy Sally could see herself getting married to and as a result she wants to take it slow. She doesn't want to "put out" too soon and risk losing him.

Which guy would you rather be if given the choice?

Guy A: You are guy #8, she doesn't want anything more than friends with benefits with you. She is willing to have sex with you as soon as you get tested. She is not expecting anything from you, nor is she expecting this "relationship" to be permanent. Techically you could try to pursue a serious relationship with her if you want one but she is not expecting it. There are no strings attached.

OR

Guy B:You are Bob. At this point, Sally is tired of casual sex and now desires something serious. She claims to see something special in you that she didn't see in the other guys and as a result she wants to hold off on sex for a couple of months (3-4) so that you can build an emotional connection. She is hoping that you will be the one to propose to her and walk her down the isle. She isn't demanding this obviously but she is kinda hoping/expecting that you will be her last. So technically there are strings attached in this case.

OR

Guy C: You have no interest in Sally on any level.

Please explain.