Dating is a challenge these days. As some of you know by now. There are rules, games, and double standards that we as men have to deal with. Unfortunatley that's the way it is these days. You can't just tell a woman that you like them. Especially if she's beautiful, as there are many men lined up behind you waiting to have a crack at her. One wrong move and you could lose her forever. Right?
Or, perhaps what if it's her? What if she's the problem not you? Guys we need to stop blaming ourselves. Guys we need to start looking at the women that we want to date very closely. Guys we need to start expecting more from the modern woman. The days of chivalry are long gone due to equality. How can we be there equal he they still want us to be old fashioned. Contradicting much? Let's face it some women aren't worth fighting for these days. Some women are and still do believe in traditional values. So I created this list of things to be wary of when it comes to dating women.
1. The Woman with a sense of Entitlement
Yup, I'm sure you've seen it or at least heard about it. The woman that thinks just because she's a woman she deserves to be treated like a queen. Entitlement is when you think you deserve something without actually working for it. Look I know there are a ton of beautiful women out there but if they project this, they are not worth the time. Why should she be treated like a queen if she hasn't done anything to earn it. As men we have to work for everything we earn and need. Just because she's a woman doesn't mean she shouldn't to. Avoid this woman.
2. The disrespectful woman that wants respect in return
That should sum it up. The old saying goes "Treat people the way you want to be treated." Evidently some people didn't get the memo. How can I respect you if you show no respect towards me. Some women can be cruel, vulgar, and over all disrespectful. This woman pretty much doesn't deserve the time of day no matter how great she looks gentlemen. She could be a Jennifer Aniston look alike but if she has a bad attitude dont even look at her.
3. The Gold Digger
You all know her the young 23 year old woman with a 50 year old man. Sure she could actually "Love" him but let's be honest. How do you have sex with someone 30 years older then you. I guess you just have to keep the will on the headboard so when it gets all gross and disgusting you can look up and see "Oh a house in Maui, I guess I can do this" seriously. These women want one thing and one thing only. YOUR MONEY! So stay away she's using you.
4. The Rebound
She is the one that still is in love with her ex but she's using you to either make him jealous or get over him. She knowingly deep down wants nothing to do with you. It's usually a woman that will have sex with you but in all actuality she is just using you. While you're left in the dark thinking that she's actually in to you. So if you ever feel like you're the rebound guy tell her to get to stepping. Ain't nobody got time for that. Unless you just want the sex then by all means just to have a heavy heart on your sleeve.
5. The Damsal in Distress
This is the woman that says she's treated horribly in her relationship. So she tells you about it. Eventually you start to believe what she saying is true. This could be a married woman who "says" her husband has cheated on her and she's tired of being treated "horribly". Knowing this you pursue her and she tells you she's thinking about leaving her husband. This is a LIE! She will never leave him well because quite frankly he's paying for her way. She's living off of him. So she will drag you along having her cake and eating it to. This woman is a deceiver and kiniving evil woman. Though she acts like she's is the one in the wrong. For all you know her husband could be an amazing man she's hair looking for something on the side. So it's best you not get involved.
So that's about it Gents, feel free to add anything that you might have experienced before. I myself will admit I fell for The Damsal in Distress. Thankfully I got out of that. Anyways. Take it for what it is. Women just aren't the same as what they used to be. I think it has to do with the feminist movement that's starting to morph into some man hating bitter overweight cows that hate everything if it doesn't benefit them. My personal opinion though. Like I said feel free to add. There's always exceptions to the rule. There're are actually great genuine women who want to share their life and love with a good man. Those are a dime a dozing these days but you can find her. Once you do cherish her but still hold your ground as a man should.