Also, if any normal lady happens to seek advice on how to NOT become a cruel woman for the normal gentleman, just review these examples in this take so you don't become one of those.
I think the most common type are the gold diggers and I think they always have been.
The issue is more complicated than that. For example people have different levels of self esteem. Some people assume they must be doing something wrong for their partner to not treat them better. This is why often a guy or girl will start treating their partner better the worse they get treated. They are trying to earn the approval of their partner, because they think it is their own fault they got mistreated in the first place.
I'm Chris Pratt and I approve this MyTake. -goes on to read the comments from disrespectful gold digging entitled damsels in distress saying not all women are like that-
You say single like its a bad thing. I'm not single I've got a great girl but it took a little to find her. Which is why I wanted to let my fellow man know about types of women or people that they can encounter.
Is she talking about the folks reading the post, or the women mentioned in the post? That makes a huge difference. It could mean "yet these girls wonder why they are still single."
no not at all those two comparisons have no similarities the old man wanting the young girl is not for money its for to feel youthful, bragging rights, and sex.
I agree, but normally when they tell such a one sided story it is because they lack honesty, or are so self absorbed they can't see their own faults. Very rarely is a bad relationship solely one persons fault. So overall I would still say that it is a red flag that should be looked out for.
I think abusive relationships are a different kettle of fish altogether... I don't think a person should ever spend too much time looking at what they did wrong if their partner is abusive. That is not to say that all people shouldn't have some humility and accept they are not perfect... Rather that in the situation of domestic abuse, the blame wouldn't be placed on the victim. No one deserves to be abused. That said... I wouldn't advise anyone to enter into a relationship with a person that has not yet left their abuser. Be there for them, sure, but keep it strictly platonic.
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Agree, great take:)
I feel like someone should tell guys this in high school.
What an excellent formulated take.
All so true. I really agree!
Also, if any normal lady happens to seek advice on how to NOT become a cruel woman for the normal gentleman, just review these examples in this take so you don't become one of those.
I think the most common type are the gold diggers and I think they always have been.
Nice take & I liked how your points are so applicable to both genders, especially the first one :)
aren't these obvious? guys act like this too, and I think they're obvious.
The issue is more complicated than that. For example people have different levels of self esteem. Some people assume they must be doing something wrong for their partner to not treat them better. This is why often a guy or girl will start treating their partner better the worse they get treated. They are trying to earn the approval of their partner, because they think it is their own fault they got mistreated in the first place.
@heavensgift2girls sure. the predatory people will prey on low self esteem people.
I love that Taylor Swoft is the picture sake of this my take. 😀
Is the girl in the last picture Taylor Swift? Lol...
Heh yeah I guess it is. I don't know I googled Damsal in distress and that's what I got.
Either way, that was well-played... 😂
Of course if a girl looks like Taylor Swift a guy will put up with any of this shit.
Not necessarily usually the beautiful women have the most issues heh.
Many guys SAY they don't mind being #4 (the rebound) ... until they catch feelings!
I'm Chris Pratt and I approve this MyTake. -goes on to read the comments from disrespectful gold digging entitled damsels in distress saying not all women are like that-
kickass article bro! and thanks for mapping it all out for us.
i was raised by number 1 yet 2s and 5s tend to flock to me like flies to a pile of shit
You could have made this article three times as long.
Heh true statement.
Nice take. It works the other way around too, especially no. 1.
So, the gold diggers, the useless ones and the entitled ones.
or "Girls", it's more short.
... and yet you're all still single and complaining.
You say single like its a bad thing. I'm not single I've got a great girl but it took a little to find her. Which is why I wanted to let my fellow man know about types of women or people that they can encounter.
Is she talking about the folks reading the post, or the women mentioned in the post? That makes a huge difference. It could mean "yet these girls wonder why they are still single."
Yeah, it's the men's fault again.
Yup, yup, I agree! Goes for all people. =)
All of these could be used on men too.
Agreed it can always relate to someone. However, this take was geared more towards guys. I appreciate your comment though.
Its very rare for a man to be a gold digger
@blondfrog The male equivalent would be the old man wanting the young girl.
no not at all those two comparisons have no similarities the old man wanting the young girl is not for money its for to feel youthful, bragging rights, and sex.
Yea and she wants money so she can live in luxury? It's the same, it's selfish. @blondfrog
5- some people ARE in horrible relationships and do end up leaving...
good take overall though
I agree, but normally when they tell such a one sided story it is because they lack honesty, or are so self absorbed they can't see their own faults. Very rarely is a bad relationship solely one persons fault. So overall I would still say that it is a red flag that should be looked out for.
I think abusive relationships are a different kettle of fish altogether... I don't think a person should ever spend too much time looking at what they did wrong if their partner is abusive. That is not to say that all people shouldn't have some humility and accept they are not perfect... Rather that in the situation of domestic abuse, the blame wouldn't be placed on the victim. No one deserves to be abused. That said... I wouldn't advise anyone to enter into a relationship with a person that has not yet left their abuser. Be there for them, sure, but keep it strictly platonic.
I've spent too many hours pursuing a damsel in distress before wising up. All of them are easy to avoid if you look on with a skeptical eye.
Me too my friend. But we learn from that and move forward.
#1 is the one that I see some times and it pisses me off
Well I'm always the rebound guy and never notice it oh well
Sounds like you just did though.
Comments and article both are awesome. Nice work bro. High five