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I am very much an advocate of free speech. "I may not agree with what you say but i will defend your right to say it... unless you're a pompous prick about it" But this era of political correctness has everyone pissing themselves to delve into deeper topics leaving nothing but mindless small talk which is not only harmful but boring.

In fact in a Washington post article a couple months back, they claimed that Forty percent of Americans under age 35 tell pollsters they think the First Amendment is dangerous because you might use your freedom to say something that hurts somebody else’s feelings. 40%! I don't care where you stand, that's disturbing man!

Also this #metoo thing is getting out of hand. In fact it's making me worried about doing anything beyond keeping women at arms length, cause i don't know what I'm gonna get. Hell Recently Chris Hardwick just got #metooed after a recent breakup right? and the only reason his career isn't just over instantly is because one of his female coworkers and 3 of his ex's literally came to his rescue.

Not to mention that Ironically enough, republicans were the ones championing equal rights for minorities and women, abolishing slavery and giving everyone the right to vote, while democrats were the ones championing slavery, treating black people as property, a democrat was the one who assassinated Lincoln, Created the KKK, did everything they could to block the civil rights act of 1964. And when all that failed Lyndon Johnson basically said. "I'll have them n****rs voting democrat for 200 years" basically saying. If we can't keep them down, we might as well have them voting for us.

And now we got ourselves a culture where everyone is trying to play the victim, it's always someone else's fault, and anyone who is a minority is disadvantaged, held down and are just too incompetent to do anything themselves.

And keep in mind all of this is coming from a black man... I cannot in good conscience stay a democrat knowing this.

My ex-wife found herself a new penis she likes more than I thought she loved me. It's been a month since she left (on my birthday, no less - my great transgression was getting too comfortable. Not cheating or abusing, just being happy), and she's trying to make nice with me and at least be friends in text. The reason why? Because her new penis is on a week-long vacation he had planned before they got together.

She used to be my best friend in the world, but then she hurt me more than anyone else ever could. Now she wants to be friends and talk all nicely. She has made it clear and I recognize she's never coming back, and I'm fine with post-breakup civility, but I don't know if I want to try to be friends again /just/ because her new penis is absent for a bit, and have her turn around and be done talking to me again when he gets back.

All the friends I had, I introduced to her so she could have friends (she was new to the state), so when she left they left with her. She already has a best friend so I know I'm not going to reach that level again with her, but fact remains I have no friends except potentially her. Basically, after the break, I have no one to talk to about anything.

So... I dunno what to do. It's not in my nature to be an asshole and no one wants to be alone, but at the same time I don't wanna be used and forgotten.