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He's 39 years old. He's 5'8.5" with black hair and brown eyes. He's an Orthodox Jew from Iraq. He immigrated to America as a teenager. He's open to having a relationship with a gentile and keeping it a secret. He raises and slaughters his own cows and chickens, and then butchers them. He believes that some criminals, such as Nazi War criminals and Islamic terrorists, deserve to be stoned to death. He hates feminists and liberals because he think that they are trying to destroy family life, gender roles and religious traditions. He tolerates people that are different from him to some degree, but he does draw lines for them that they can't pass. However, his liberal/secular jewish acquaintance describes him as transphobic, homophobic, and ultra-orthodox, but he tells her he's okay that his beliefs make him intolerant and ultra-orthodox.

He becomes friends with the most strangest and questionable men in his neighborhood, which mostly consist of Jews. Some of his friends are religious Muslims and Sikhs. One of his closest, Orthodox friends is the most intolerant troublemaker in his apartment and neighborhood. They both complain about how feminism is cancer, how women these days aren't traditional and submissive enough, how there is nothing wrong with having more than one wife according to pure Jewish law, and how women are becoming terrible moms and wives. If any of his friends' complain to him about their kids misbehaving, then he would scold their kids and his friends are okay with that.

He has a hereditary disease that can be deadly if he doesn't take proper care of it. He's an introvert. He's a family man and both of his parents are dead. He regularly takes care of his younger siblings and his single, crazy aunt. But he's a virgin with no kids.

A little mad with my partner who promised to attend 2 meetings a week after work in the evenings. He was going well for the first month and a half and then on one particular week he claims he didn't go due to feeling tired but managed to be awake enough to play internet games and watch Netflix and the following week he claims he forgot to go and was vegging out in front of TV.

I told him I got the impression that he wasn't totally committed to helping his recovery and this was one of the agreements we made upon me taking him back and giving him a second chance after he had been keeping his drinking problem a secret from me for months.

I told him that these were very flimsy excuses for laziness and that the message I get when he doesn't go is that he also does not value me as his partner and the agreement he initially made and also gives off the impression that he doesn't really care about trying to repair himself and our relationship.

He got defensive pretty much because I called him out on his Shitty excuses.