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In elementary, i tried to be friends first and they usually left me friendzoned for life. I rsther just be aquaintances/associates and then reveal feelings towards eachother after some months... if its mutual, great. If not, either never talk to them again or friendzone eachother. After my #1 childhood crush and i were friends for a few years, even having sleepovers with eachother (because i was his sisters bff), he and i got closer. So i was like YAY now we’re friends, but when should i reveal my feelings since he's acting like he likes me too. Yep, big mistake. When his sis told him how i felt, she said his reply wasn't good at all. So now i just rather not be friends first outta fear of ending up friendzoned. But im fine with liking eachother than becoming friends along the way. I mean, my ex was a somewhat enemy first. My current was just he guy who gave me advice on finding someone better (how “ironic”)... and other guys were either acquaintances or flirty DMs. So am i alone here? #FeelFreeTolist #FriendsFirst

My nephew is 19 years old off and on nice not very cordial and just ugly towards me his parents towards others SOMETIMES and moody ( won't say good morning unless you speak first ). He sometimes can be selfish and stingy which irks me and others too.
His personality is KNOWN to people who know him including his girfriend and friends.

I found out because she and I work in the same group and have gotten close as we have a lot in common. She eventually got to a point to where she would talk about her relationship with my nephew ( which most are about his ways sometimes as mentioned above ) .

She admitted to me that she has become attracted to this othe boy (Blake) who lives in my apart ment complex. I like Blake a lot he's charming upbeat and gentlemenly and respectful and his well liked by A LOT of people. I found myself preferring his company over my nephew sometimes

To be honest I feel awful for not getting angry at her for admitting this to me about liking someone else and cheating.

She begged me not to tell because of his temper.
I've been knowing about it 4 four months now.
When I think of the way my nephew can be sometimes it makes me continue to not tell him.

Though I see my nephew often when I visit my sister ( who dosent know by the way ) and talk with him because I care for him to a degree ,
he's definetley not one of my favorite nephews either. I dont HATE him though lol. I love him but his attitude as a person sometimes can make u avoid him. He has good points too but his bad points get in the way.

I mean realistically I should but like I said since were not that close Im not really inclined to jump over a fence to inform him but at the same time itll look bad on my part as he's a relative.

I like his Blakes personality a lot better and if my nephew was screwing his girfriend Id prolly woulda told Blake QUICKER 😕😕😕😕
Im not trying to pick outsiders o