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So I think it’s only me. But I cannot find a relationship to save my life. I’m super unlucky compared to everyone else.

Im almost 25 and never had a real relationship. I saw someone for a short amount of months and he wasn’t my type, he was probably one of the only guys that came my way. But he seemed nice and we had things in common, so I went for it. He was not physically attractive and people I knew thought I could do better, yet he seemed to get women easily.

I've been on and off dating apps for years and I just cannot find a guy. I’m told I’m attractive and always thought my weight is what kept me single. But I’m thick and lost a good 70 lbs, yet I’m still unnoticed by guys. I’ve seen big women get approached and have dates so that’s not it.

Anytime I try to meet someone from online, it never works. Lack of connection, interest isn’t mutual, things fade out, disagreements and I end talking to them etc.

I would love to meet people in person but I don’t have friends and never used to get approached anyway. Anytime that I’ve been approached, it was by a guy I did not find attractive. I’m starting to wonder if I’m not as attractive as people say I am or if I’m cursed.

Im able to graduate college, move out and find a “real job” YET can’t find a man, what gives?

So I’m posting this under relationships because it applies to friendship and romance. I am 25 and recent college grad. I still live at home but plan to move out next year.

When I say I have no friends, I mean NONE. I tried making them in HS and college (lived at home) but it didn’t work out. I try dating apps to meet people and it isn’t successful.

I do not think I’m unattractive but I don’t get hit on like other women I know. I have rarely been asked out and it was by guys I did not find attractive. Everyone says love will find you and you will make friends but I have no expectations at this point/know that I won’t happen.

Im very quiet and only speak when spoken to. I’ve been bullied back in HS and Middle school, even at a previous workplace. I don’t know what I do to warrant their behavior but I have given up on people. I stay to myself and don’t like being alone, yet cannot deal with peoples BS at this point.

My mother’s side of the family has caused a lot of unnecessary drama in my life and I don’t talk to them. I avoid my grandmother and my father at all costs

Anyone relate or am I unlucky as I suppose?

I just absolutely give up looking for a partner. I’ve tried almost every dating app. And am always single. Everyone I’ve known has been able to easily find a partner whether it be through an app or meeting people in person.

I have had “friends” previously that I’d go out with and guys didn’t give me the time of day. I’ve lost a significant amount of weight and regardless of how I look, people don’t notice me. I only get attention from guys that I wouldn’t date and that’s rarely. So that does not count.

Everyone i I know is able to find love without trying and I don’t understand why or how I’m always alone. It’s extremely unfair and I don’t know what else to do. I’m in my mid twenties and even though I’m shy, dating should not be this hard for a young woman. While I do have low self esteem, people have told me throughout my life that I’m attractive and this doesn’t only include family/ “close friends”.

Paid nor free apps work for me. I don’t have friends in real life so I rely on these apps. And people I’ve met are able to find someone without much effort. While here I am alone. I am that woman that is always alone. No friends or partner in my life. I’ve considered losing more weight and wonder if that’ll change the lack of attention I’ve received. What bothers me is someone I used to see for a few months was able to move on to a new girlfriend shortly after I stopped talking to him. I’m not into him anymore, it just bugs me how he is able to move on and find someone likes him while I’m always single. And people told me that I’m more attractive than him/ could do better.

Am i I the unluckiest person ever or is this the way dating usually is for most women? Because I don’t think it is.

I just absolutely give up looking for a partner. I’ve tried almost every dating app. And am always single. Everyone I’ve known has been able to easily find a partner whether it be through an app or meeting people in person.

I have had “friends” previously that I’d go out with and guys didn’t give me the time of day. I’ve lost a significant amount of weight and regardless of how I look, people don’t notice me.

Everyone i I know is able to find love without trying and I don’t understand why or how I’m always alone. It’s extremely unfair and I don’t know what else to do.

Paid nor free apps work for me. I don’t have friends in real life so I rely on these apps. And people I’ve met are able to find someone without much effort. While here I am alone. I am that woman that is always alone. No friends or partner in my life. I’ve considered losing more weight and wonder if that’ll change the lack of attention I’ve received.

Am i I the unluckiest person ever or is this the way dating usually is for most women? Because I don’t think it is.