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My mother is seriously not racist but she has always told me that it’s better if my kids look similar to me, so it’s better if I marry someone who shares a similar phenotype.

At first, I didn’t really listen, but as I got older, I kind of feel the same now. I think it’s cute to have similar looking children.

And I also realized that every single man I really liked in my life comes from one of the Mediterranean countries, and has a stereotypical Mediterranean look (like my current italian guy) meaning I usually knew they came from that region but couldn’t pinpoint which country exactly (dark hair, golden skin, Caucasian facial bone structure, soft hair (not kinky) but not necessarily straight).

It’s not really an ethnical or racial thing, but mostly a phenotypical thing. For example, I would rather not be with a fellow Tunisian who is too Light or too dark to pass as Mediterranean, or with an Italian who is too light that you can’t really tell he is from the Mediterranean.


NB: In case you still didn't notice, I'm not asking about RACE or ETHNICITY, but about PHENOTYPE.

I remember this one time, when I was around 10 and still with a "thick" accent, I was asked if I would ever straighten my hair (at the time, I had really big and curly hair) by one of my classmates.
I was the only "black" kid in my school at the time so I was either gawked at, make fun of, isolated, or touched and I didn't like it but whatever.
I was asked that question a lot by the white, black, and middle eastern people of my family; so I was used to people touching my hair after asking me or plainly just asking me.
The only reason I am telling you this is because I was on the bus a hours ago and a woman (I don't have long hair anymore, but I am growing out again) asked me that question.
I looked at her and asked why, she said, "it would so pretty if it was straighten. You'll have length to your hair." Unlike the kids at school who were just being kids and asking, basically, "why does this chick look different from us," I was genuinely insulted by this woman. So, I said, "my hair looks fine, thank you. My hair is naturally kinky-coily and it looks is just fine." Her... friend (?) chimed in and said, "we aren't trying to say anything, but you'd look much better with shoulder length hair," to which, I replied, "and you'd look much better not talking to me, its 7 in the morning and nobody wants to be on this bus. Let's not make it harder."
The lady mumble something to her friend and left me alone. I feel bad now, they were only trying to help.
Was wrong for snapping at her?

https://www.dailydot.com/irl/findom-kinky-fetish-domination-extortion-blackmail/
"Bella’s paypigs will buy her clothes, shoes, lingerie, cash or gift cards... Bella does all of this fully clothed, sometimes just sitting down for a meal over webcam... Findom isn’t about sex...
Sierra displays photographic evidence of a $50,000 transfer to her account, $20,000 in hundred dollar bills laid out on her floor (a gift from a paypig named Tim), and a pickup truck gifted by another... Her Amazon wishlist has potential gift ideas to fit any paypig’s budget."


"As a college student, Reddit user mistakesweremade would regularly give findoms access to his credit card and Amazon account and watch on cam as they looted from him...

Another user recounted a similar tale about a girl he met on webcam. A relationship that started with him paying for her dentist appointment eventually blossomed into her taking all of the money he earns except what he spends on necessities."



https://www.thrillist.com/entertainment/nation/i-make-200k-a-year-demanding-money-from-men-online

http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/true-stories/the-art-of-rinsing-landed-these-sisters-160000-worth-of-gifts/news-story/7bc77c82e150fa1028dbbffbcc922fb2

"Rinsing is when men shower women with expensive gifts without expectation of sexual favor. The men enjoy looking at their photos, so send gifts as gratitude.
Lucy, Sophie and Stacie Brooks made $160,000 and got designer shoes, handbags, gift cards and cosmetics...
'We’re doing these men a favour. They love our pics... We brighten up their day in an innocent way. We’d never meet or do anything sexual.'"

I think it's cool as long as it's consensual on both sides. A woman wants to charge however much money for a selfie, she has the right to do that. A man wants to pay that money, he has the right to do that, too.

Would you do it?

If anyone wants to be a paypig for a 20 year old girl who looks "cute", "innocent", "pure", and young, hit me up ;p

I am very confident, meaning:
- I have no problem speaking up my mind, even if you disagree with my opinion.
- I can take a lead in flirting, I can ask deep or kinky question, I can openly talk about sex.
- I have 0 complexes (I am aware I'm not perfect physically but I don't mind showing you everything).
- I am daring, direct and brutally honest.
- I never get jealous (because I think I'm the best damn thing).
- I don't play hard to get or other games, if I want you I'll tell you, If I want to see you I'll invite you, if I want to have sex on the first date I'll seduce you and do it.
- I'm not shy at all.
- I don't care what others think about me, not even you.

Kinky includes things like bondage, sadomasochism (inflicting pain or having it inflicted for pleasure), D/s relationships and special fetishes. Toys like paddles, rope and ball gags too.

Normal includes about all sex positions from missionary to 69, oral, masturbation, maybe a soft slap on the ass and careful anal play. Toys like vibrators and dildos too.