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I am in love with one man that I have had an off and on again relationship. We have never been a couple but when we do go out he makes sure everyone knows I am "his" girl. We have so much fun together and we both admit that. He just can't commit. Each time we get too close he pulls away. We stop talking and then the process starts over again. It is driving me crazy and after the last time I told him it is too hard on my heart and that I will start dating other people again. He holds my heart but hasn't really done anything to keep someone else from steeling it away. Ok then there is this man I recently met. He is so very sweet. Calls me his princess. And does just about everything to make me happy. Ideally he is everything I hope to have in a relationship with someone. He is helpful around the house. Says just about everything perfect for me. The only thing is I don't have strong feelings for him. He is winning me over with kindness and gifts and my vulnerable position of being broke. He would provide for everything. But there are little things that drive me up the wall a little. He is very clingy. Wants to kiss all the time. I am not a huge kisser. He is more business like. An engineer making big bucks and the other man (the man I have very strong feelings for that won't commit) is the poor construction type. My heart wants the poor construction type but half of me feels like he will just end up hurting me time and time again with all the pulling away he does. The business like man I know will never hurt me and if he did he would do anything to make it up but I don't have feelings for him. Not yet anyways. Here is the kicker. Just as I started seeing this other man (the engineer) the man that I have feelings for comes back into the picture. I need to make a decision quick. the funny thing is now I keep seeing the poor construction workers name everywhere. His name isn't popular either.