My ex girlfriend broke up with me three months
ago. I'm still not exactly sure why. It was not a clean
and certainly not a kind, or easy one. Read
my previous questions if you would like to know
details. I have repeatedly told & asked her not to
call or text me. She'll stop for a week or two then
resume. A few days ago I relented & met up with
her. She said she made a mistake breaking up with
me and she had a lot to apologize for. I thought she
wanted to get back together then revealed that she
was still with person she left me for. Then said that
she wanted to meet up and have sex with me on the
side. I was shocked, disgusted & horrified. I told that
she had to decide between him or me & couldn't have
both. I said I still loved her but I wouldn't have sex with
someone I wasn't in a committed relationship with. That if she
couldnt or wouldn't commit then she couldn't have me.
I told her I wouldn't be just friends with her either bc
it was too awkward & painful for me. Then I said if she
seriously wanted to try & get back together then contact me
otherwise dont. That wasn't going to allow her to use
me and hurt me further. My question is did I make the
right decision? Is this girl even worth taking back?
What should I do? Thank you all for reading & responding.
Merry Christmas.
ago. I'm still not exactly sure why. It was not a clean
and certainly not a kind, or easy one. Read
my previous questions if you would like to know
details. I have repeatedly told & asked her not to
call or text me. She'll stop for a week or two then
resume. A few days ago I relented & met up with
her. She said she made a mistake breaking up with
me and she had a lot to apologize for. I thought she
wanted to get back together then revealed that she
was still with person she left me for. Then said that
she wanted to meet up and have sex with me on the
side. I was shocked, disgusted & horrified. I told that
she had to decide between him or me & couldn't have
both. I said I still loved her but I wouldn't have sex with
someone I wasn't in a committed relationship with. That if she
couldnt or wouldn't commit then she couldn't have me.
I told her I wouldn't be just friends with her either bc
it was too awkward & painful for me. Then I said if she
seriously wanted to try & get back together then contact me
otherwise dont. That wasn't going to allow her to use
me and hurt me further. My question is did I make the
right decision? Is this girl even worth taking back?
What should I do? Thank you all for reading & responding.
Merry Christmas.
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