I was pretty heartbroken last year, and this year I've decided I'm sick of feeling powerless and not worthy of love. I kind of just want to get back into dating to have fun and find my confidence again, but without having to put my heart on the line.
Currently, I'm seeing on and off four really great, good-looking, fun and interesting guys - it's a pretty sweet deal. I've hinted to all of them the type of casual relationship i want. I straight up told two of them - with one of them being a fuck buddy and another more friends with benefits with more hangouts. At first, it was easy to suppress any feelings that would rise up that would obstruct me having light-hearted fun and feeling happy. However, the longer I do this (and it hasn't even been that long!), the more i find myself feeling attached to them at different times. I hate feeling powerless about it. For example, i promised i would never have feelings for my friends with benefits, because he is one of those super hot guys who likes to play around. However, the other day i found myself stalking his facebook out of boredom, suddenly trying to figure out which one is his ex-girlfriend and questioning if i was not pretty enough.
Anyway, just wondering how other girls who have tried the multiple dating thing have found it? Guys can answer too i guess, but more interested in girls' answers.
Currently, I'm seeing on and off four really great, good-looking, fun and interesting guys - it's a pretty sweet deal. I've hinted to all of them the type of casual relationship i want. I straight up told two of them - with one of them being a fuck buddy and another more friends with benefits with more hangouts. At first, it was easy to suppress any feelings that would rise up that would obstruct me having light-hearted fun and feeling happy. However, the longer I do this (and it hasn't even been that long!), the more i find myself feeling attached to them at different times. I hate feeling powerless about it. For example, i promised i would never have feelings for my friends with benefits, because he is one of those super hot guys who likes to play around. However, the other day i found myself stalking his facebook out of boredom, suddenly trying to figure out which one is his ex-girlfriend and questioning if i was not pretty enough.
Anyway, just wondering how other girls who have tried the multiple dating thing have found it? Guys can answer too i guess, but more interested in girls' answers.
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