We been on 9 dates she's indian girl and we knew each other since march, but we met only in June. Since first date we walked to my car holding hands, she mentioned on first date she feels there is good vibe , on all they dates she never rushed to go home. staying with me in my friend place till 5 in the morning, spending almost 3 days at my home cuddling, sleeping with me in one bed, giving me a gift a camera she didn't used Canon, paid for my water park, used to initiate where we met her self, we spent almost 9 hours in water park. But since day 2 she was saying i am not looking for relationship because everytime i start to like someone i get hurt, and used to joke sometimes you can get my sister.. i used to turn it to joke. But after the cuddling part at my place she started saying about meetings we shall see or ignore invitations and later mentioned she dont wanna give me false hope and afraid if won't work out she might hurt me. So although we said we won't met for now we met on Saturday and we had intense conversation about qhere we stand and she mentioned same thing about relationship and that i should find other girl, that now its to late when she wanted relationship in march. Although the evening went well we went to restaurant she stayed till night not rushing to leave. After this conversation she pulled away and for 3 days when i used to message her she used to write little and leave me on seen or just like.. and after two days i stoped messaging than she messaged me, she talked a lot sharing about common friend and than dryed again and stopped than i didn't messaged her again and she reached out , but taking 9 hours to replay and clearly something change but why she keeps messaging me?
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Word of advice stop chasing her , if you like her let her come to you , she clearly doesn’t know what she wants, so do not put all your eggs into one basket with her. If she likes you and wants to be with you she will come to you , if not , then you got your answer, you are free to date other people if you choose to , and I suggest that you do , since she can’t make up her mind, that’s her problem not yours
Lol. On rhe rare occasion that a woman tells a man "I just want you but not a relationship" (which is supposedly every guy's dream) you're wondering why she's engaging? Figure it out, man. OR go ask your boyfriend why she's interested in being with you without a relationship...
My opinion, she's just as confused as u. U say u message her, and message her and she don't reply for 9 hrs. Then when u don't she s the 1 messaging u? She's been hurt she says... have you asked her how? Cuz it might seem ok to you thinking the times u 2 spend together are cool.. but maybe somewhere in there she might ve mentioned something. To which u missed, could've caused her feelings to get hurt. Like dude we can't assume women have as good as time as us men. We're super easy, chill people. Inside. And women are exactly the opposite. And the only way to know is to ask. Maybe she likes ur vibe when you both are together, but when she leaves her mind starts playing with her head saying shit like ur guuna get hurt. I mean who really knows. They're so many possibilities... easy and fastest way... ask
She is like the dog that finally catches the car but does not know what to do with it after that.
Maybe she has an arranged situation with parents?
just continue with what you do… go look for another girl… or drop her. Up to you.
She said she's against arranged. marrages... she used to tell me she was hurt many yimes, i think she just broke up with her ex in march.. plus problems with work, visa... and she said everytime she starts to like someone problems come so i dont want
So you missed a layup?
Take a lap.