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She likes me but doesn't want a relationship?

aguywhois20
She likes me but doesn't want a relationship?
I feel like every relationship has an uncertainty stage and it's up to us to get through that mountain of uncertainty and become closer. For a whole month I told myself I didn't want a relationship and that I didn't like her, but still took that leap of faith, I understand how she feels.(I'm not saying she is forced to take that leap if she isn't ready). My hope was to empathize with her about how she feels and it could make her trust me more.

A possibility is she is still scared from a past relationship, he cheated on her after 3 years and treated her like shit, it ended when they were 14(we are both 20). He still msgs her on FB. She is from the Philippines she is now in Canada. The guy still lives in the Philippines I'm really not sure what he's thinking or why she won't just block him.

I care about her happiness and well being, I want her to take her time and figure things out, what do you think I should do in this situation?

Could what that guy did to her still be in her head after all these years? Sometimes when I say things to try to reassure her she says "I've heard that before". Could it be she's associating what I've said with what that guy did to her?

Did showing I cared make her lose interest in me and her excuses are just a nice way of rejecting me because she didn't want to hurt my feelings by openly rejecting me?

She's at a point where she doesn't want a relationship, is it too late? Should I just let go and move on?
What do you think I should do? Any help would be great thanks.
Sorry for giving too much detail/info this is my first time I'm not sure how it works.
She likes me but doesn't want a relationship?
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