So we’ve both talked a lot and she says she likes me a lot but she has a lot of mental health problems and other stuff she's dealing with so she doesn’t want a relationship with anyone. She text me everyday but I don’t want to waste my time because I really like her should I stick around we help each other a lot and I don't know how to approach it without losing her !
depends how much you actually like her, if you think she's worth it and you see a future relationship in it. only you know if you are wasting your time or not based off your own feelings. if you stick around?, so is it you just want a romantic relationship etc?
Most Helpful Opinions
it's really your choice, if you like her then stay around, if you feel like you're wasting then move on.
I struggle with the same situation with a guy who has mental health issues, I decided to stay but tbh nobody knows what's happening tmw, maybe I lose patience and give up or maybe we turn into something.
from a women's point of view, I might not ready to be in a relationship because I have expectations and I am afraid of getting hurt, I might be afraid of myself messing up the relationship because of my own problems.
communication is important, keep talking to her.
Personally, I would keep my options open. There's no reason you can't date other women while she's not ready for a relationship. And just because you're dating other women doesn't mean you can't support her through her mental issues. And who knows, maybe she'll decide she's ready for a relationship while you're still single. But tying yourself down to someone who may or may not ever be ready for a relationship with you is just asking for pain.
She wants to rack up dick before “settling”, therefore she is telling you that you are the type of guy to settle for. But she is wanting to exhaust her hoe phase.
Essentially, she’s trash. And you deserve better. You need to cut her off so she doesn’t use you for emotional support while having trains run through her.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
3Opinion
Ignore anything a woman says when she decides a date There's only yes and no. That's a no. Date other people.
Have sex with her instead. Kidding.
you can wait for her for a while, but I wouldn't wait longer than 6 months.
She wants to fuck other guys
Move on
The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!